Subbie Mantra



Hello subbies, subbies in training, wanna be subbies, and the just curious… Some of you may be aware of meditation techniques. In meditation there is a phrase or word that you use to focus your energy, it is sometimes called a mantra, such as omm, etc.

In D&S subbies also have a mantra, but usually to focus their energy on trying to get out of trouble.

The mantra? “It’s not fair.

How many times have I heard this? Well, Nikki uses it maybe twice- no not a day -an hour!! Bree much less, as she knows it does not have any magic properties and will not help her escape her fate.

So why do subbies try this? Well, it may have worked in the past, or they may think the Dom might have fallen and bumped his head and he has forgotten how to be a Dom, or aliens kidnapped him and took out his Dom gene. Who knows? But boy do they (subbies not aliens) ever try. Now I have to say a Dom must always be consistant in his fairness and meeting out judgement. If he is not, trust me, a subbie will try anything to weasel out or at least lessen their punishment. It’s odd to me then when I inform Nikki she is in for a session in the punishment room, the first thing she says is, yup you guessed it, “It’s not fair!”  She knows it never works but she still says it. Sometimes to the point of irritating me and  earning a longer and more painful spanking…Oh and this did not just happen once, and she learned her lesson… No, no ,no,  it happens all the time. Bree has told her it’s useless but she trys anyway.

So my question to all of you is, why do you keep trying? When you know it will not do any good, and may even earn you more than you were originally supposed to get? Nikki’s second favorite mantra? “Meanie!” I love subbies, but they are a curious lot sometimes. Now I must go and medicate – I mean meditate!   Ommmmmmmmmmmmmm…………

Sir John

6 thoughts on “Subbie Mantra

  1. I myself would certainly like to hear more from Sir John. From what I can tell, he’s helping his talented wife to raise a beautiful young lady. He should be proud of both of them. Sounds like he’s very funny too 🙂

  2. I third this motion. Please write and thank you in advance.

    This was funny although I doubt this post will take any ‘that’s not fair’ or ‘meanies’ from anybody’s vocabulary. If there is the teeny tiniest glimmer of hope that fairness actually exists or temporary amnesia has occurred you have got to try. 🙂

  3. OMG, now this is the John I have been waiting to see come out of the woodwork. He toldmme he wrote a post, but I was not expecting this!! Come on gals… Help me encourage him. Should he start writing a fun book? So far, he is making me do all the writing and, frankly, it’s not fair!!!!! And he is way tooooo funny to deprive the subby world of his domly wittiness.
    Oh, FYI, I heard Nikki whining her mantra shortly after this was posted and she got an email from him reminding her that it was her turn to do the laundry…. LOL.
    Luvs, Breebree

    • Sir John is most entertaining. I feel sure there is never a dull moment when he is around. I am only a curious reader. I’m not sure there is a submissive bone in my body; but I am intrigued by the idea. I most definitely could stand to read more from Sir John. 🙂

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