Hi there, my sweets! I am so sorry I’ve been inCognito lately…. The head is still attached to my neck and is improving… Only to be turned around and having the pain sent down to my bottom as time goes on. SJ, who so many of you seem to love for reasons I am still trying to guess…. Decided to spank me for the ‘sassy’ post I put out regarding it being his fault about me forgetting my wallet. The man has the humor of a bean bag, sometimes…. But then, he is the Guitar God and Lord Master Dom of All Dimensional Universes and is immune to my pleas. FYI, the man is getting stronger! Nope, not a happy Bree.
Today is my Friday.. And I swear I am being punished for going part time! If I don’t have the major psych and agitated patients (aka monkey men), then I go where there is neither cell service nor internet. What have I done to deserve this????
I miss Nikkers!!! At least with her around, SJ has someone else to pick on.
Luvs,
Breebree
There’s also Alt.com (is that site still around?) Fetlife is a good way to meet people online, like Bree said, and to look up local get togethers.
Good suggestions Piper. Also, join fetlife. they have groups for each state and towns. You can get to know people that way as well.
luvs Bree
Lisa, have you researched your area to see if there is a BDSM club or group? You can also research to see if they have a monthly “munch”. A munch is a get together, usually at a restaurant, where people can just talk and hang out and it’s in a public place. They won’t expect you to do anything, it’s just like a party. That way you can meet others and talk freely and ask any questions you have. It’s a great way to introduce yourself to the community. And 42 is not too old! I know a 62 year old woman who found her DOM last year.
So, Isabella and Gigi, are you in a d/s relationship?
Thanks for sharing. I’m not sure. I think I might be submissive, but I’m at a dissadvantage because I’ve never been in a relationship and I’ve been on my own for a long time so I know how to take care of myself. Not looking like it will happen for me though since I’m 42 and have no prospects. Don’t get me wrong, I’m happy and have been blessed with great friends and family – a great life. I’ll just live vicariously through books (and this blog 🙂 )until I find someone. I love hearing everyone’s stories.
Lisa,
I’m not in a d/s relationship. Most of my long-term relationships seem to involve some man wanting to spank me. That might just be my annoying personality! I think I’ve been afraid to expose that much of myself to anyone, plus I don’t really trust my judgment when it comes to men.
I live in a small farming community and BDSM clubs are not thick on the ground. Hard to find someone who might also be interested in same sort of friendship/relationship.
As you can tell from my posts to SJ, I obviously haven’t had any sort of training on being a sub, just my natural inclination to be a brat.
I seem to have that same inclination! ;). I’d probably have a leather but if I were in a relationship!!
I’ve been in a weird kind of mood lately, sort of angry, frustrated, wanting to throw a tantrum, pouting, etc. Wondering if being spanked would relieve some of those feelings. I can’t cry on my own and get it out of my system, but that’s sort of what I feel like I need. Just a good crying jag. Do any of you ever have these kind of feelings.
So, do you think we’re attracted to dominant men or does our behavior just make men want to spank us? I’ve never really thought I need someone to look out for me. I’ve been on my own for a long time and am pretty independent. My reading interests definitely leans toward spanking, D/s and submission stories (or murder mysteries).
I spend my life confused. It’s like enjoying the SJ butterflies, but avoiding him, cause I don’t want him to be mad at me. Go figure.
I thought I would stay off his blog for a while. Hopefully he doesn’t read this one!
Glad your head is feeling better! I’m sorry for your bottom too 🙁
Isabella, you will, of course, love Lost and Found. Happy reading!!
Hey guys, Nikki here. Listen, I know some of you think SJ is being unfair. And of course you are entitled to your opinion, but you need to understand something. If we have a rule that we have been warned about, and we break that rule, we have to accept the consequences. We always have the opportunity to talk about rules and the fairness (or not) of them. SJ has the final word of course but he is not an ogre. He does consider our feelings. The wallet rule…Bree was warned about that in the past. She knows the rule. Yea, it may seem like a small thing but it is a rule that she had been warned about so she knows that she has to accept her punishment. With grace (right Bre?) or at least that is what I am always told. The first part of her punishment was for her snarky post about her upcoming punishment. It showed disrespect. The second part, today, is for the wallet.
lov nikki
That is one sore looking butt. Hopefully you can take a break from any more of those punishments for a while. After reading what s j said about going out I would stay home for a while if I were you.
Glad to hear your head feels better. Sorry about the punishment! We sure did miss you, however, we had Gig I to entertain us in your absence 😉
Well migraine medication does make you loopy, to where you may type things you may not uhhh usually type?
“the humor of a bean bag….” I thought you had enough even if you are topping it up by Lord and Master. For some obscure reason I don’t think Sir John will buy into it. Good luck on your future honey, I think you might need it =)