You Might be a Masochist if…


Hello lovelies,

How are you all? A brief update: Bree is healing…slowly, but a little better every day. In no small part because of all of you, so thank you.

Now to our title…I am sure some of you have heard the comedian that says “You might be a redneck if…” so I thought I would make it more appropriate for you.

You might be a masochist if…

  • You’re in the middle of a caning and you say “Is that all you got?”
  • You record a movie that has a whipping scene and you rewind it so many times your DVR breaks
  • You check your marks after a session and are disappointed that they only cover half your bottom
  • As a reward you ask for a severe session
  • For Christmas you ask Santa to whip you
  • You can’t seem to find a severe enough spanking video online
  • Your dream vacation is one week of confinement and torture
  • You own a spanking machine and write the maker to see if he can make you one that goes to level 11
  • You practice smart remarks in the mirror before your next session

Be good, or else…




Hello lovelies,

I do hope as you read this at least a few of you are red or at least have sore bottoms, which brings me to my post…marks pro or con?

Marks are inevitable, especially in a severe session. Redness is always a factor but marks can vary depending on the sub. Some subs mark easily, some not so much. Most of the subs I have sessioned with or trained say they like to see marks on their bottom, especially after a severe session. They feel if they are going to suffer that much pain they want something to show for it, lol.

Marks can vary as well. A heavy school paddle can bruise deeply, while a cane or rug beater will leave surface welts. Even leather can mark. In particular whips of various lengths and thicknesses. The thinner ones leave long thin welts while the heavier ones mark wider and deeper.

Some subs even like extreme marks, even to the point of blood being produced. I am not into that but different strokes…literally, lol. Also remember a Dom is not being cruel if you mark, it just means that is the result of your punishment for a particular behavior.

If any of you are looking for a Dom, one of the questions you need to ask is ‘Does he mark in a session?’, then you need to figure out if that’s what you want. A marking session is much more painful than a red bb one. Sometimes subs feel marks are a deterrent and avoid them at all costs. Others, as I have said, not only want them but need them to show that they indeed were really punished.

So lovelies where do you come down on the issue? Have you ever been really marked, not just red but bruised or welted? If so did you enjoy that feeling and that sight or not?


Anyway it was on my mind so thought I would get all your takes on this as I do love to hear from you. Marks may be in your future, so…

Be good, or else…


Dom or Master

Ok lovelies it seems I got a lot of hits on my last post. Since it was a bit darker I thought I would go down that path a little further. I am going to explain my approach in a punishment session on two different levels. Both, a Dominant/submissive level and a Master/slave level, where the sub/slave has commited the same offense.

Now just a fyi, a Master really does not hand spank that much, yes he does on occasion but M/s punishments are usually for very serious offences. Ones that require a lot more than just a hand spanking. I will also warn you it does get a bit graphic later, so read at your own risk.

Let me start by saying these examples are for subs/slaves that have a good deal of experience with me or others. The D/s described and definitely the M/s is not for a newbie, not at the level I discuss here.

Ok let’s look at one of my pet peeves that subs do…speeding. This is totally unacceptable as it not only endangers the sub but also people around her.

D/s Punishment


Subs with a lot of experience getting punishments develop quite a tolerance. This leads to a dilemma. A hand spanking, even a hard one, can produce more pleasure than pain and that’s not what I want.

So let’s start with the heart paddle, yes the evil tool of Dom meanies. I would say 25 per cheek will get that bb stinging some. Next, wood hairbrush, 35 should do. By now there would be a lot of yelling and squirming OTK. The strap comes next, although this would be applied with the sub bent over something, a desk, couch, etc. 35 should do it.

Now we progress into teaching the sub just how unacceptable speeding is using the school paddle. The heavy wood stings like fire so, 25 sounds about right. Finally 12 of the best with the cane. After all the spankings are given she’s placed in a corner with her marked bb clearly visible. Of course after the stint in the corner is over then there is after care. I would hold onto the sub or have her sit in my lap, stroke her, not in a sexual way but a comforting one. Talk to her if she needed to or if she needs to cry let her get it out. Lastly, I would forgive her and make sure she knows the punishment was for her own good.

M/s Punishment:


First off, when a slave commits a bad behavior like this it is much much more serious than a sub doing so. In this scenario a slave must be prepared for what’s to come so certain procedures are required.

Now is the time for the faint hearted or easily embarrassed to stop reading.

No? Ok, I warned you.

The slave is striped, totally. She is then blindfolded and gagged or bitted. From there she is either suspended, arms above her head or tied over a bench but her breasts must not be touching anything. Why, you ask? Well, next the nipples are clamped and each breast pinned with numerous clothespins. By now some squirming and low moans of pain are heard. For some, these are not moans of pain but soon will be. Best case scenario is to have some thin chain go from the nipple clamps to a collar so when the slave jerks her head…you get the picture. Hey stop with the maniac chants, I warned you. Also let me remind you that M/s is totally consensual. Next is an important component but one that is hardly pleasing, a ginger root is peeled, shaped and inserted anally. Yes, you read this right. A butt plug is a viable option but does not have the additional burn that is required. This basically makes it so when the slave clenches her bottom during a stroke the ginger releases juice causing an increase in the painful burning sensation. As you can tell our slave is already in some discomfort and not a stroke has been given. She’s blindfolded so she has no idea when a stroke will come or what it will be with.


Already having an intimate knowledge of the slave I will know what implements she likes and hates of course. Let’s say she hates a wooden spoon. A good start would be 50 of those. From there I would continue with various wood implements; paddles, brushes, etc. Then on to my whip. This would be applied from mid-back to the backs of the knees. It’s s a short whip but can leave very red welts. Now, a lot of slaves love to be whipped. Just to be sadistic, when she starts enjoying it I bring out the canes, the birch and the rug beater. This type of pain will snap a slave right out of her endorphin zone. I would then leave the slave to absorb the punishment for a brief bit.

Aftercare is vital here as this is very severe punishment so it begins with a touch over the body which will be very soothing. Off comes the blindfold then the gag. Again, I would stroke her hair and whisper I forgive her. Next the ginger would be taken out and finally the pins taken off. It’s possible for some that they would be in subspace, others just crying and needing to be held. Whichever the case I would never ever leave her alone. If she is crying I need to hold on until she is done, if she is floating in subspace I need to monitor her and make sure she comes out of it. Either way she will be very sore for a while, inside and out, but it will serve as a good reminder to never commit this offence again.

Ok I hear you…this is cruel, you are so sadistic, we thought you were a nice Dom not a torturous monster. Relax.

As I said, it’s for endangering yourself or innocent bystanders. Speeding could result in someone’s death. Still think it’s cruel? It would have happened more than once to get a punishment to this place. If you have not fainted and are still with me that’s a very basic difference between a D/s punishment and an M/s one. If it deters a woman’s habit of speeding then I say it’s worth it. Would you not say so? After all I could be saving you or your loved ones life by providing this deterrent so strictly. Do I really need to say it?

Be good, or else…lol


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