I have a question for you, do you respond more to words or actions? Listening or looking? Audio or photos or videos?
Being of the male persuasion and a Dom I respond to both. I love the cries and begging of a sub being punished but also the sight of her red cherry bb. Then again, I also like photos and videos…pretty much anything for me.
But how does this speak to you?
Do you fantasize more from reading a great book (by oh I don’t know I hear this Breanna Hayse woman is pretty good lol) or maybe watching spanking videos or clips online? Maybe a photo or a gif does it for you?
I find it interesting because many subs react totally different to stimuli. Some subs can react strongly to a scolding, even to the point of crying while others it does not affect that much. Some can get in the submissive zone from looking at photos or videos, others nothing. Of course an in person interaction can be totally different as it’s always more intense and has the verbal and physical aspects.
I have seen subbies have a lot of anxiety from certain pictures or videos. Then again another subbie can look at the same photo and it does nothing. I love subbies! I love subs as they are all so different. It’s always an adventure to find out what makes them tick and how best to teach and guide and when necessary discipline them the most effective way possible. So naturally I’m just curious as to where you all fit into this D/s jigsaw.
Be good, or else…
Oh yes, and enjoy the books lol.