Birthday!

2015-03-30

Hello lovelies,

As you may or may not know, the 27th was Bree’s birthday. I told her we could do whatever she wanted since it was a special day. Then I thought, wait a minute, that’s no different than any other day, lol. She is major spoiled and treated like a queen. Go ahead and ask her.

She wanted to go to a place she really likes around here. It’s a market with quirky shops and a restaurant attached. Also, she is addicted to English peas and it’s the only place that has them. We were able to get some and she was really happy.

It was a beautiful day so we walked around, took some wacky pictures and went into some shops. We are always looking for things in shops that can be used on a bb. Unfortunately this day was a bust, bummer!

Bree did buy this flyswatter, like that would do anything lol. We had a great lunch and I even bought her a frozen banana. All in all good birthday outing.

When we got home Bree went back to finishing her book and I practiced. After a couple of hours I informed her I had not forgotten about her birthday spanking. She protested, of course, but knows better than to be out right defiant and followed me upstairs. After taking her OTK and baring her bottom I told her she could yell or squirm (I really like that) but if she tried to get away or resist to the point that I had to pin her down she would get extra.

Wondering how she did? Let’s just say after the spanking and turning her bb cherry red I called the people at Guinness because she was 135 that day! And just so you all know the harder the spanking the more good luck the following year. Bree is going to be very very successful year, lol.

There you have it, a typical Bree birthday in the house of Hayse.

Be good, or else…

SJ

The Other Side of the M/s Coin

2014-08-11

So lovelies,

It seems I scared a lot of you with my last post. Here’s a little advice, fear what a Dom can do not the Dom, or the Master. Now just as the punishments for bad behaviors are quite severe from a Master, the pleasure/pain sessions are equally as enjoyable.

I thought that might get your attention.

As you know, or maybe you do not, a pain/pleasure session is how subspace is achieved. In the case of an M/s scenario it can be a deep subspace indeed. The bench is used or the bed, with the submissive tied or not. A blindfold or gag is not required but can enhance the sensations. There is usually an anal plug but not necessarily ginger. There is a lot more flexibility in this type of session.

Usually a warm up spanking starts it off and even a Master, when doing this type of session, will allow your feedback…what implements, how hard etc. A lot of the session is up to you. You may make requests, although, once in subspace you will not be able to or want to talk.

Now the main difference in an M/s and a D/s subspace session, for me, is the use of the whip. A submissive that is in an M/s relationship usually loves the whip and her tolerance for pain is usually higher than a D/s submissive.

Floggers are used one or two at a time, of differing weights. If the submissive is not bound these can be used both on the front and the back. The whips are used front and back also but the long stingy whip is used mostly on her bottom, thighs and back. I also do a lot of tapping with various implements, usually canes. Even if you hate the cane a pain/pleasure tapping is very enjoyable and sensual.

The session would go on for about an hour or so. After all the spanks are given a full muscle massage over an oiled body would be applied. This can last a while but it is amazing after a long session. Sometimes the sub is just so into subspace she is asleep. When this occurs I watch her, but let her absorb the experience. If she is just on the verge of subspace then the massage usually puts her over. This is when you will be very grateful your Dom/Master has strong hands.

Still scared?

You see a Dom must have a giving, kind side as well as a strong disciplinarian side. A Master, the same but up about 5 notches or so. It’s all about intensity, and a pain/pleasure session is all about you, a gift   from your Dom or Master. So you see, not scary right? Plus if you behave you get more of these than you do the other.

Be good, or else…

SJ

Positions, Implements and Intensity

Well, Lovelies- it’s me, SJ, or as some of you like to call me: Mr. Meanie. I am going to try to do a weekly post and also answer any questions you may have for me. What kind of questions? Any and all, so let me know. The most recent has been “How do you determine what positions,  implements and intensity…?”

As most of you know, each Dom will be different in how he/she weighs the deed to the discipline. I am coming from old school (like the kind that existed before a certificate could be earned online and anyone could claim the title of Master or Mistress). I can already hear my girls snickering about it being sometime during the 1300’s…Very funny, ladies… Regardless of the decade we were mentored in, the mark of a good top is contemplation, consistency and compassion. And with those traits in mind…

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As a rule, I find certain offenses require different types of discipline, type of implements, amount in duration and, along with these, different positions. For the typical ‘bratty’ sub, the traditional OTK (Over The Knee) on the bare-bottom with my hand is usually sufficient to address the challenging, and often mischievous, behaviors.

For a more serious violation, I have several prized implements of choice. The Dreaded Dana to a hard wood brush can do the trick, but I must sometimes reserve the right to apply the school paddle. The position, not just the implement, is determined by the seriousness of the transgression. I will vary from the hairbrush/OTK, bent over grabbing ankles or touching toes is best (Nik still has not learned the difference between her toes, knees or thighs as her hands start to inch up with each swat), to leaning over a pile of pillows. And ALWAYS, of course, on the bare bottom. We Doms do like to watch it change to nice, hot crimson.

And now, the serious infractions. I have zero tolerance for my girls putting health or safety at risk. That includes speeding, texting or putting make up on while driving, theft, illegal drug use, and making foolish decisions that might cost you or someone else their job, safety or relationship. My little ones know that there is no backing out of these since most of them involve a criminal action. Inappropriate public behavior that causes embarrassment to me or anyone else is also a serious infraction in my book. That can include being out of control due to liquor, a public temper tantrum, disrespecting another person to cause them a problem.

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Fortunately, most of my girls learned this lesson very quickly and have not repeated the same mistakes. No names about who still needs to be reminded. For these issues, nothing less than the cane, the prison strap or… If she really is teetering on the edge, the birch. Rubber and textured acrylic implements often join the event. I also implicate the use of a T-bar. These little nasties came about from NuWest Videos eons ago (yes, there were TVs and actual recorded films back in the day). This sweet thing is perfect for the most severe sessions and compliments the implements very well because it keeps that lovely bare bottom nice and available. Occasionally, I include restraining of the hands and ankles while my bad little darling is stretched out over a spanking bench. This ensures that she is held safe and secure during her receipt of well- deserved stripes. Of course, for true humiliation, the diaper position is hard to beat. Well, not exactly. It is most delightful because the sit-spots are perfectly aligned to meet with my implement. I will have her on her back, ankles secured to a spreader bar which is either heisted in the air or attached to her wrists along the ankle links.

Yes, well… I am sure you are getting the idea.

I hope you have enjoyed the imagery and, to answer that last question…Yes, these different types of discipline are employed regularly in our household. It truly is Good to a be Dom!

Be Good or else…. SJ

SJ + Cane + Bree = :)

 

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Ok. I know its been a while-quite awhile- but sometimes things come up, even for a Dom. However, I did a sub session with Bree I thought was worth writing about.

She was restrained by her request. Now in case you forgot, a sub may ask for things during a sub session. In fact, it helps the Dom, as the subs pleasure is the main goal. Bree bought a split cane not long ago. A very nice implement. If you do not know what this is, just google “Dom torture devices” lol Ok, not really. All though it can be quite painful, it can also be pleasurable. Even arousing when done in a certain way ..

So split cane and also school cane  delivered to Bree’s bb …for ……are you all sitting down?  Well if you can, lol anyway drum roll please …Over 1000 strokes!   Doms honor, no lie.

Out of these maybe three were hard and elicited the proper squirming, and  yelling  past  normal hearing loss.  Now  false  modesty is not a Dom thing, so let me just say to apply that many strokes to the proper area and with the proper speed  is not easy. In fact, it takes not only skill but alot of forearm strength. The technique is called tapping. Tapping is a technique where  the cane is applied very fast, all though not really hard.  Certainly stinging- but in a good way.  And yes Bree loved it .

So my question to you all…Have any of you ever experienced tapping in any form or during session? , If not, does this sound like something you would want to try?

Remember, Bree could have stopped this anytime. It was not a punishment.

Missed you all!I will try and post more frequently. As always, be good or else.

SJ

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