The Other Side of the M/s Coin


So lovelies,

It seems I scared a lot of you with my last post. Here’s a little advice, fear what a Dom can do not the Dom, or the Master. Now just as the punishments for bad behaviors are quite severe from a Master, the pleasure/pain sessions are equally as enjoyable.

I thought that might get your attention.

As you know, or maybe you do not, a pain/pleasure session is how subspace is achieved. In the case of an M/s scenario it can be a deep subspace indeed. The bench is used or the bed, with the submissive tied or not. A blindfold or gag is not required but can enhance the sensations. There is usually an anal plug but not necessarily ginger. There is a lot more flexibility in this type of session.

Usually a warm up spanking starts it off and even a Master, when doing this type of session, will allow your feedback…what implements, how hard etc. A lot of the session is up to you. You may make requests, although, once in subspace you will not be able to or want to talk.

Now the main difference in an M/s and a D/s subspace session, for me, is the use of the whip. A submissive that is in an M/s relationship usually loves the whip and her tolerance for pain is usually higher than a D/s submissive.

Floggers are used one or two at a time, of differing weights. If the submissive is not bound these can be used both on the front and the back. The whips are used front and back also but the long stingy whip is used mostly on her bottom, thighs and back. I also do a lot of tapping with various implements, usually canes. Even if you hate the cane a pain/pleasure tapping is very enjoyable and sensual.

The session would go on for about an hour or so. After all the spanks are given a full muscle massage over an oiled body would be applied. This can last a while but it is amazing after a long session. Sometimes the sub is just so into subspace she is asleep. When this occurs I watch her, but let her absorb the experience. If she is just on the verge of subspace then the massage usually puts her over. This is when you will be very grateful your Dom/Master has strong hands.

Still scared?

You see a Dom must have a giving, kind side as well as a strong disciplinarian side. A Master, the same but up about 5 notches or so. It’s all about intensity, and a pain/pleasure session is all about you, a gift   from your Dom or Master. So you see, not scary right? Plus if you behave you get more of these than you do the other.

Be good, or else…


Dom or Master

Ok lovelies it seems I got a lot of hits on my last post. Since it was a bit darker I thought I would go down that path a little further. I am going to explain my approach in a punishment session on two different levels. Both, a Dominant/submissive level and a Master/slave level, where the sub/slave has commited the same offense.

Now just a fyi, a Master really does not hand spank that much, yes he does on occasion but M/s punishments are usually for very serious offences. Ones that require a lot more than just a hand spanking. I will also warn you it does get a bit graphic later, so read at your own risk.

Let me start by saying these examples are for subs/slaves that have a good deal of experience with me or others. The D/s described and definitely the M/s is not for a newbie, not at the level I discuss here.

Ok let’s look at one of my pet peeves that subs do…speeding. This is totally unacceptable as it not only endangers the sub but also people around her.

D/s Punishment


Subs with a lot of experience getting punishments develop quite a tolerance. This leads to a dilemma. A hand spanking, even a hard one, can produce more pleasure than pain and that’s not what I want.

So let’s start with the heart paddle, yes the evil tool of Dom meanies. I would say 25 per cheek will get that bb stinging some. Next, wood hairbrush, 35 should do. By now there would be a lot of yelling and squirming OTK. The strap comes next, although this would be applied with the sub bent over something, a desk, couch, etc. 35 should do it.

Now we progress into teaching the sub just how unacceptable speeding is using the school paddle. The heavy wood stings like fire so, 25 sounds about right. Finally 12 of the best with the cane. After all the spankings are given she’s placed in a corner with her marked bb clearly visible. Of course after the stint in the corner is over then there is after care. I would hold onto the sub or have her sit in my lap, stroke her, not in a sexual way but a comforting one. Talk to her if she needed to or if she needs to cry let her get it out. Lastly, I would forgive her and make sure she knows the punishment was for her own good.

M/s Punishment:


First off, when a slave commits a bad behavior like this it is much much more serious than a sub doing so. In this scenario a slave must be prepared for what’s to come so certain procedures are required.

Now is the time for the faint hearted or easily embarrassed to stop reading.

No? Ok, I warned you.

The slave is striped, totally. She is then blindfolded and gagged or bitted. From there she is either suspended, arms above her head or tied over a bench but her breasts must not be touching anything. Why, you ask? Well, next the nipples are clamped and each breast pinned with numerous clothespins. By now some squirming and low moans of pain are heard. For some, these are not moans of pain but soon will be. Best case scenario is to have some thin chain go from the nipple clamps to a collar so when the slave jerks her head…you get the picture. Hey stop with the maniac chants, I warned you. Also let me remind you that M/s is totally consensual. Next is an important component but one that is hardly pleasing, a ginger root is peeled, shaped and inserted anally. Yes, you read this right. A butt plug is a viable option but does not have the additional burn that is required. This basically makes it so when the slave clenches her bottom during a stroke the ginger releases juice causing an increase in the painful burning sensation. As you can tell our slave is already in some discomfort and not a stroke has been given. She’s blindfolded so she has no idea when a stroke will come or what it will be with.


Already having an intimate knowledge of the slave I will know what implements she likes and hates of course. Let’s say she hates a wooden spoon. A good start would be 50 of those. From there I would continue with various wood implements; paddles, brushes, etc. Then on to my whip. This would be applied from mid-back to the backs of the knees. It’s s a short whip but can leave very red welts. Now, a lot of slaves love to be whipped. Just to be sadistic, when she starts enjoying it I bring out the canes, the birch and the rug beater. This type of pain will snap a slave right out of her endorphin zone. I would then leave the slave to absorb the punishment for a brief bit.

Aftercare is vital here as this is very severe punishment so it begins with a touch over the body which will be very soothing. Off comes the blindfold then the gag. Again, I would stroke her hair and whisper I forgive her. Next the ginger would be taken out and finally the pins taken off. It’s possible for some that they would be in subspace, others just crying and needing to be held. Whichever the case I would never ever leave her alone. If she is crying I need to hold on until she is done, if she is floating in subspace I need to monitor her and make sure she comes out of it. Either way she will be very sore for a while, inside and out, but it will serve as a good reminder to never commit this offence again.

Ok I hear you…this is cruel, you are so sadistic, we thought you were a nice Dom not a torturous monster. Relax.

As I said, it’s for endangering yourself or innocent bystanders. Speeding could result in someone’s death. Still think it’s cruel? It would have happened more than once to get a punishment to this place. If you have not fainted and are still with me that’s a very basic difference between a D/s punishment and an M/s one. If it deters a woman’s habit of speeding then I say it’s worth it. Would you not say so? After all I could be saving you or your loved ones life by providing this deterrent so strictly. Do I really need to say it?

Be good, or else…lol


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