You Might be a Masochist if…


Hello lovelies,

How are you all? A brief update: Bree is healing…slowly, but a little better every day. In no small part because of all of you, so thank you.

Now to our title…I am sure some of you have heard the comedian that says “You might be a redneck if…” so I thought I would make it more appropriate for you.

You might be a masochist if…

  • You’re in the middle of a caning and you say “Is that all you got?”
  • You record a movie that has a whipping scene and you rewind it so many times your DVR breaks
  • You check your marks after a session and are disappointed that they only cover half your bottom
  • As a reward you ask for a severe session
  • For Christmas you ask Santa to whip you
  • You can’t seem to find a severe enough spanking video online
  • Your dream vacation is one week of confinement and torture
  • You own a spanking machine and write the maker to see if he can make you one that goes to level 11
  • You practice smart remarks in the mirror before your next session

Be good, or else…


On your marks. Get set. Spank!

Hello lovelies,

Today is a post about something I talk to a lot of my subbies about… marks.

Some of you may be thinking…Ok SJ we know you’re kind of Dom crazy but marks?

Oh yes, not only marks I feel a sub may deserve but marks she may request!

Did you fall off your collective chits? Still with me here?  lol

Let’s look behind door number one…

Deserved marks…There are some offenses I feel need severity and with severity comes marks, bruising or striping, even welts are not unusual. Now before you all start a campaign to order hit man, my subs all know this out front. I discuss behaviors, consequences and inform them their bottoms can be marked and will be if necessary.

Door number two…

Requested marks…No it’s not a typo. Many of my subbies ask for marks. I can hear some of you…ok SJ we know subbies be crazy but what?? Ask for marks?? It’s true. Now why would that be? Well let’s look behind door number 3…

A showing of penance…Let’s say one of you lovelies were visiting and had a very serious offense for me to take care of, that would be very very painful. I have had subbies say to me at least they had something to show for what they had to go through. Not to mention that’s’ a powerful incentive to behave. Every time you look in the mirror you will think about that session and why your bottom is marked, right?

Of course, I love putting my marks on a subbies bb, lol. Good to be the Dom.

Be good, or else…





Hello lovelies,

I do hope as you read this at least a few of you are red or at least have sore bottoms, which brings me to my post…marks pro or con?

Marks are inevitable, especially in a severe session. Redness is always a factor but marks can vary depending on the sub. Some subs mark easily, some not so much. Most of the subs I have sessioned with or trained say they like to see marks on their bottom, especially after a severe session. They feel if they are going to suffer that much pain they want something to show for it, lol.

Marks can vary as well. A heavy school paddle can bruise deeply, while a cane or rug beater will leave surface welts. Even leather can mark. In particular whips of various lengths and thicknesses. The thinner ones leave long thin welts while the heavier ones mark wider and deeper.

Some subs even like extreme marks, even to the point of blood being produced. I am not into that but different strokes…literally, lol. Also remember a Dom is not being cruel if you mark, it just means that is the result of your punishment for a particular behavior.

If any of you are looking for a Dom, one of the questions you need to ask is ‘Does he mark in a session?’, then you need to figure out if that’s what you want. A marking session is much more painful than a red bb one. Sometimes subs feel marks are a deterrent and avoid them at all costs. Others, as I have said, not only want them but need them to show that they indeed were really punished.

So lovelies where do you come down on the issue? Have you ever been really marked, not just red but bruised or welted? If so did you enjoy that feeling and that sight or not?


Anyway it was on my mind so thought I would get all your takes on this as I do love to hear from you. Marks may be in your future, so…

Be good, or else…


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