It’s Supposed to Work!!!

 

Hello Lovelies,

I have been out of town so I’m a bit late. The title of my post refers to the phenomenon that maybe you can help me with.

As you know, Bree and I have been together for quite a while so you can imagine how many spanks she has received. Yet she still cries out the same thing every time…. ok ok that’s enough, I’ve learned my lesson, you’re making me mad, that hurts!!!, etc….of course it NEVER works, never has and never will.

She says the same things every time and afterwards, you guessed it, “Why doesn’t it work?!?!”

Every single time, the same lament, lol. Like I’m suddenly going to say sure Hon, I’ll stop right now, LOL.

But she keeps trying, God bless her.

Be good or else,

SJ

Spanks for the Reminders

Hello Lovelies,

As I told you last post, Bree was getting rather uppity, smart mouthed, bad attitude etc….so I decided to implement (yes, I meant that, lol) a plan of daily reminder BB spankings.

I’m very happy to report that they have worked wonders. No more attitude or smart mouthing.

If any of you have a Dom or Domme, I’m sure you could benefit from a similar program, lol.

Be good or else,

SJ

Just Remember

Hello Lovelies,

So here’s the deal, even a very well behaved sub can slip back to her bad behaviors. Bree is usually very well behaved but lately she’s been very sassy and even disrespectful at times.

So what’s a Dom to do? I’m going back to an oldie but a goodie….daily reminders.

What that means is everyday she goes BB OTK for a sound spanking, not punishment level but hard enough to get her cherry red and squirming. This will be a daily reminder to her that I’m not please with her attitude.

How long will this continue? We shall see…It doesn’t help her case that she has a very spankable bottom! So win win for me as usual, lol.

Be good or else,

SJ

Sometimes You Have to Switch Things Up

Hello Lovelies,

Well as some of you may know, Bree and I got the boarders in the car and took off for a day at a secluded cabin that I booked. We had a great time and Bree has a reminder of our trip, some nice red stripes on her bottom.

You see once we settled in, we went for a walk to explore the property. I told her to be careful while walking around but she kept walking fast, not watching where she was going. I warned her, “Bree, you’re going to fall. Slow down.” But no and ….boom right on her bottom.

She wasn’t hurt but I was not pleased. I told her, “If you want something to do, go get a switch and get back to the cabin.”

Of course she began whining and apologizing for not listening to me but it was too little and too late. When we got back, I told her to get her pants and panties down and touch her toes. After she had done so, I began scolding her about listening to me and not being so reckless.

25 red stripes later, she was in the corner. She is quite sore today with some nice red stripes.

Maybe I had a better time on our trip than she did, lol.

Be good or else,

SJ

The Brush Off

Hello Lovelies,

So here’s a little story and a question.

Bree decided to brat some, she was jonsing for a spanking, lol. Anyway she got a few and was told to settle down or she would get the brush.

She did not like that and threw a temper tantrum. About 5 mins later, she was in the corner whining with a flaming red bb. I did warn her but she decided to push me.

Here’s my question: Do you feel littles should only be spanked by hand or also with a brush or paddle if they keep acting out?

Be good or else,

SJ

Look Into My Eyes

Hello Lovelies,

I want to talk about something that will make things a little easier for your Doms (for a change lol). Doms range in skill, some are great at discipline, some scolding, some more mental than others, etc. But one thing your Doms cannot do…(unless he is an alien, lol)… is read your mind.

If something is a problem for you, especially a hard limit, tell him. Don’t think he can read you and know. Instead of getting mad, remember you did not say anything. So how would he know?

A Dom will respect your hard limits if he knows what they are, but don’t forget you have to tell him.

Trust me, even if it is hard or embarrassing, you’ll be much better off. Better that then a session going bad or even a nice day ruined over lack of communication.

Be good or else,

SJ

 

General’s Little Angel #SatSpanks

Happy Saturday everyone! Thanks to all of you for the emails you’ve sent me about this piece. You are the ones who gave me the courage to put it out there and I am so grateful that I listened to you. Don’t forget to see what everyone else is up to over at Saturday Spankings Blog.

General’s Little Angel

What does age-play really look like and can an independent and intelligent woman really find healing as a submissive in a BDSM relationship?

As General G’s PA, I was privileged to travel and explore many parts of the world. I admit that I was somewhat of a brat, a fact that he discovered very early in our relationship. I was also out of control as I tried to numb myself from my past. General G took it upon himself to be a Daddy to me and my first Dominant as well. He made me face my fears, try exotic foreign foods, and even challenged me to go outside my comfort zone and learn to play–while he played along with me. Despite the trouble I got into (and there was plenty) and the consequences that came of it, I never felt abandoned, unloved or afraid.

This is the true story about my first Dom and my introduction into the age-play dynamic and disciplinare, as well as the background behind what brought me to the place of submission. Many things happened after being taken under my general’s protective (and incredibly patient) wing. He took a young, broken, abused, and unloved little girl and gave her significance and worth through love, firm guidance and boundaries. He made me laugh, helped me to cry, and showed me the power and healing contained within the age-play lifestyle. He made it safe for my inner child to express herself and taught me that it was good to enjoy life.

But no one really knows what happens behind closed doors. This was one of the most difficult books that I have written. It not only brought up many memories, both good and bad, but it also forced me to reveal parts of my past that some might find disturbing. Because of those issues, I felt this story would be a valuable asset to the Breaking Chains© series. It is also the inspiration behind the writing of the Generals’ Daughter and The Captains’ Wives series (coming soon)

I pray that all of you are blessed with at least one person who has positively impacted your life and that you grab every opportunity and positively touch others. Always remember—your words and actions have the power to either heal or kill. Which direction do you choose?
Luvs, (Listen, Understand, Validate with Sincerity)
Bree

All proceeds from sales will be donated to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. With your help, we can bring awareness and healing.

Publishers Note: This is a true story that contains loving age-play and mild BDSM, spanking of adult women, and discussion regarding domestic violence and self-harm.

“I told Les to keep an eye on you. What part of sticking to his side didn’t you understand?” Ray asked, his mouth set in a grim line.

“It was all my fault. I wondered off. I’m sorry.”

“Les, go down and grab some chow. I want to have a little talk with our prodigal young lady in private. We’re leaving for Seoul tomorrow morning right after chow, so we’ll see you then.”

“Yes, Sir. Night.” He left the room faster than I could take a breath.

“I’m pissed,” Ray said, his hands on his hips. “Do you have any idea how worried I was?”

“I’m sorry! I didn’t mean to get lost.”

“Did you do what I told you?” I faced the floor and shook my head. He cleared his throat. “I can’t hear you. Speak up, young lady.”

“No, Sir.”


 

Red at Both Ends

  

Hello lovelies,

So I was at a gig which ended early but Bree did not know this. Evidently she behaves in a rather surprising manner when I’m not around. No, it isn’t what you’re thinking, lol.

She was on dragon speak reading from one of her books, rather ……hmmmmmmmm how do I say this, enthusiastically? I stood there for a while and when she finally saw me, she screamed like she was in a session.

She then turned redder than her bottom from her last spanking, so funny.

There is never a dull moment around here…

Be good or else,

SJ

Upstairs/Downstairs

Hello lovelies,

As you all know I love smart women, I mean come on, I married one, right? But sometimes she’s too smart for her bottoms own good.

Take last night for example, Bree was supposed to be upstairs sleeping. I’m downstairs watching a horror movie. It’s getting good, they are about to unmask the killer and ….. the screen goes off and comes back on with a bunch of Minions running around, huh??

What happened? How did I get on Netflix and why in the world would I play a Minions movie?

Then it hit me, BREE!!!

Somehow she’s behind this. I run upstairs, open the door and she is grinning like the Cheshire cat from Alice in Wonderland. She is also hiding something under the covers.

“Ok, give it up.” I say.

She then says, “What? I was sleeping.”

“Really??? With the light on and this??” I pulled back the covers and there is her ipad and guess what?

Big brain figured out how to cast Netflix downstairs. The next 5 mins were filled with the sounds of Minions laughing and Bree whining and yelling from the bb blistering she got.

Then I took her ipad, tucked her in and went back to my movie. Oh yes, the killer was dead, the movie was over and I had no idea who he was after investing an hr of my time, UGGGGGGG.

Some where Minions are laughing.

Be good or else,

SJ

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