Just A Thought

Hello lovelies,

This will be the closest I ever get to a vanilla post. I was thinking, especially how the world is and where its going, maybe it’s time to enter 2018 in a much more positive way.

So consider this, friendships or loved ones that have been weighing heavy in your heart because of hate or holding a grudge, how about we forgive and let that hate go.

I’m not saying forgiveness means you condone a wrong, but what would the world look like if we could all lighten our souls in this way? Is it a nieve notion? Probably. Do I think any of you will do it? Doubtful. But I figure what do I have to lose by putting forth the notion. Anyway, wishing you all a red bottomed new year (I said CLOSE to vanilla).

Be good or else,

SJ

Just Remember

Hello Lovelies,

So here’s the deal, even a very well behaved sub can slip back to her bad behaviors. Bree is usually very well behaved but lately she’s been very sassy and even disrespectful at times.

So what’s a Dom to do? I’m going back to an oldie but a goodie….daily reminders.

What that means is everyday she goes BB OTK for a sound spanking, not punishment level but hard enough to get her cherry red and squirming. This will be a daily reminder to her that I’m not please with her attitude.

How long will this continue? We shall see…It doesn’t help her case that she has a very spankable bottom! So win win for me as usual, lol.

Be good or else,

SJ

Sometimes You Have to Switch Things Up

Hello Lovelies,

Well as some of you may know, Bree and I got the boarders in the car and took off for a day at a secluded cabin that I booked. We had a great time and Bree has a reminder of our trip, some nice red stripes on her bottom.

You see once we settled in, we went for a walk to explore the property. I told her to be careful while walking around but she kept walking fast, not watching where she was going. I warned her, “Bree, you’re going to fall. Slow down.” But no and ….boom right on her bottom.

She wasn’t hurt but I was not pleased. I told her, “If you want something to do, go get a switch and get back to the cabin.”

Of course she began whining and apologizing for not listening to me but it was too little and too late. When we got back, I told her to get her pants and panties down and touch her toes. After she had done so, I began scolding her about listening to me and not being so reckless.

25 red stripes later, she was in the corner. She is quite sore today with some nice red stripes.

Maybe I had a better time on our trip than she did, lol.

Be good or else,

SJ

Look Into My Eyes

Hello Lovelies,

I want to talk about something that will make things a little easier for your Doms (for a change lol). Doms range in skill, some are great at discipline, some scolding, some more mental than others, etc. But one thing your Doms cannot do…(unless he is an alien, lol)… is read your mind.

If something is a problem for you, especially a hard limit, tell him. Don’t think he can read you and know. Instead of getting mad, remember you did not say anything. So how would he know?

A Dom will respect your hard limits if he knows what they are, but don’t forget you have to tell him.

Trust me, even if it is hard or embarrassing, you’ll be much better off. Better that then a session going bad or even a nice day ruined over lack of communication.

Be good or else,

SJ

 

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