The List

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Hello lovelies,

I was thinking about the differences between a vanilla relationship and a D/s one the other day. I came up with this list. It was rather surprising to me to see all the differences as I don’t think about them in my relationship with Bree.

Drum roll…Yes I know I do that a lot just hang in there…

THE  LIST !!!!!

A vanilla partner at one time or another might:

1) Judge you for how you look

2) Judge you for how old you are

3) Be a bad example for you

4) Have some bad habits ie.  Drugs, alcohol, smoking

5) Yell at you

6) Curse at you

7) Walk out in the middle of an argument

8) Put you down

9) Hold a grudge

10) Offer no consequences for any of your bad behaviors

A Dom will:

1) Protect you

2) Never put you down

3) Never judge your appearance

4) Always be a positive example

5) Never abuse drugs, alcohol etc.

6) Never curse at you

7) Never get angry or walk out  in the middle of an argument

8) Never yell

9) Never hold a grudge

10) Will always discipline you for your bad behavior  then forgive you after

So why are you looking for a vanilla guy? Lol. Pretty revealing, yes? Ok my lovelies remember…

Be good, or else…

SJ

Subbies are Definitely Crazy

2015-08-24

Hello lovelies,

You all know I love you and the title was said with affection but my post will prove my theory, I’m sure of it. It’s a two part question for you all and the catalyst of this query was none other than your favorite author, fellow crazy and the love of my life Breanna Hayse.

I am sure you all have long hair, or most of you. Bree likes to wear hers in a ponytail. She looks cute so I am all for it but she knows that she’s very easy to control via the pony tail. I’m not saying I drag her around the house like a cave Dom but taking her upstairs and keeping her OTK by holding her ponytail is easy.  Now first question, when she knows she plans to act up and annoy me (as she did the other day) and she knows she will be taken upstairs and spanked, why does she put her hair in a ponytail?  Would you not wear it down or try and make it hard to grab a hold of?

Now for the subbie be really crazy portion of our program.

I took Bree upstairs by her ponytail. She grabs my hand and resisted…well she tried, not very successfully. I took her to the bedroom still holding her by the ponytail. She’s still trying to hold on to my hand as I put her OTK and hold her down. She’s a big time squirmier so I need to pin her pretty tight. I let go of her hair to position her more over my knee and start spanking. I notice she is still yelling and promising to be good etc. but she’s not moving much. That’s odd I thought and then I saw something that I had to laugh at…Bree still has ahold of her ponytail! I mean she’s begging to get up and holding her own self down at the same time!!!!!

Now if that is not the definition of subbies be crazy, I don’t know what is. Anyone out there have an explanation for this subbie phenomena?

I sure don’t but to tell you the truth I was laughing so hard I almost fell off the bed.

Be good, or else…

SJ

And You Can Tell Everybody This is Your Thong

Hello lovelies,

So how cool is that? SJ quoting EJ, lol. Ok, man tough crowd.

Here’s the dealio…When a subbie is having their first session, she is always nervous and a little scared, that’s normal. I usually let her wear a thong the first spanking, for modesty sake.

Now, let’s look at that situation shall we? When you all fantasize about being spanked…oh come on its me, you know you all do it!  You probably fantasize about being OTK and having your dress lifted or jeans taken down, held in place and then your panties taken down to expose your bb right? The humiliation is part of the lesson to be taught.

My question is this, do you feel it’s necessary for the kind of first time spanking experience to have your panties pulled down or, if you are permitted to wear a thong, can it still satisfy the fantasy?

It may seem a benign question but, it can affect a session in different ways. Personally, I feel the sub needs to feel contrite and humiliated, to a point, especially a more mature subbie. But I am also aware of how scary a first session can be. The thought of a Dom you have hardly met seeing you in such a vulnerable position and spanking your bb can drive some subbies to the door fast!! Don’t laugh, its happened.

Does experience trump modesty for you in a session or is it the other way around? As always…

Be good, or else…

SJ

Changing the Subject #SatSpanks

Saturday Spankings

What a crazy week it’s been and one week of relaxing before I head out to the Passionate Pen Conference. It’s going to be a blast! In the meantime, our lovely Baylor continues her journey and expands her family in Loving a Little Heart.

Loving a Little Heart

 She’s got two gorgeous men, and a serious craving for chocolate…

In this, the sequel to Breanna Hayse’s best- selling ‘Moving A Little Heart’, Baylor’s back-with double the trouble. Feisty but vulnerable Baylor Parish is pregnant with twins, which means her two daddies; stepbrothers Hayden and Jake; her Uncle Terry, and her big brother Matt are even more loving and protective of their girl than usual.

About to realize their lifelong dreams of fatherhood, Jake and Hayden decide to make their family official before the babies are born, and soon a double wedding is on the horizon for the Paterson household. An unusual, polyamorous dynamic, however, calls for a very unique wedding-something Baylor is only too glad to embrace. After all, she was married before, and that traditional ceremony ended up having disastrous consequences.

Pregnancy is a time for growth in more ways than one, and Baylor is worried that her dynamics with Hayden and Jake will change now that they’re going to become parents. Can she be a mother and still explore her Little side with her two daddies? How will her changing body and high risk pregnancy affect their BDSM routine? And what will happen when a blast from her terrible past turns up on her doorstep?

Baylor discovers that two partners, two babies, an Uncle and a big brother simply result in twice as much everything; double the fun, double the worry, double the time over a strong lap, and twice as much love…

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“She’s changing the subject,” Jake laughed.

“She always does when it’s something she doesn’t like. If she thinks we are bad, wait until Terry starts to harp on her.”

“You know he won’t spare her backside for a minute.”

“I’m pregnant. You guys can’t go spanking me anymore,” Baylor grumbled.

“Wanna bet? Things will be a little different, but there is no way we are going to give you a free pass to brat for the next seven months or so. We know you too well,” Jake tweaked her nose. “A spanking does not have to take place across our laps or with heavy impact. Plus, we have ‘alternative’ means of discipline that will make you beg to be spanked.”

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