Chicken Tenders

Ok- so for those of you who are getting to know me, you’ll see I used the term Chicken Tenders for fun, playful spankings and ‘attention’.  Unfortunately, when I get smart mouthed or defy Daddy, the chicken tenders are converted to Rump Roast.  Yes…. Nikki got what she wanted— ME in trouble.  Ok, I kindof brought it on myself (chalk it up to a moment of insanity), but I made a rather insincere and half-heartedly apology to my sister following Daddy’s order.  Dumb dumb dumb- I didn’t think he would immediately check on the response.  I dot my little butt hauled to the spanking chair, went OTK bare bottomed and received a rather heated lecture via my back end to be nice and not so rebellious.  I swear, the man has a hand like  wooden board- I HATE it.  So yes, my friends, I now sit here on well roasted, unhappy chicken tenders that need some SERIOUS marinade (rubs). But I’m not allowed…..

I’m sorry, Nikki.  I won’t try to get you in trouble anymore. (For a while anyway).  Luvs- Bree-Bree

Motivational Spankings

What do you think about motivational spankings? Daddy seems to think they are important. Personally, I am not so sure. I think I could live without them. Especially the day after being paddled and still wearing bruises from said paddling. What do you think? Do you get motivational spankings? I am thinking we should take a poll on here and maybe that could decide the verdict about whether I get them or not. What do you think? After the verdict is in, Bre can tell Daddy!

Fantasy vs. Reality

Hello, my friends…. this has been a week of learning new lessons and reinforcing old ones.  My poor sister will attest to that.  I wanted to share some thoughts I have regarding ‘real world’ vs ‘fantasy world’ that most of us subs seem to have.  First- let me thank all of you for your continued support with my books!  Your positive reviews and encouragement have been lifting them all into the top ten of Blushing’s List.
As you know, the story lines/plots in my stories are fiction/fantasy with multiple scenes based on reality.  I can’t help but chuckle when I read a review regarding an ‘unrealistic’ element in any author’s work.  Of course it is!  It wouldn’t be fiction, right?  Who of us have not dreamed of being a mermaid? Or winning the Lotto?  Or being perfectly smart, talented, beautiful…… I mean, if all of the books we read were based on reality- there would be a LOT more 35 and under, 6’5″, rich, smart, hot, available men then we would know what to do with! And very few of us would ever reach the 30 year old mark (or gain weight, get cellulite, wrinkles or gray hair).  Right?  So I say on behalf of my fellow authors- just sit back and enjoy!
Seriously- how many of us would really want to live the ‘lives’ of our characters or scenarios? Not me, for sure- especially enduring the frequency/severity in which our poor, slow-learning heroine finds herself OTK.  Heck- in my real life, I’m in enough trouble as it is– I certainly wouldn’t want more!
We often  enjoy living vicariously through the stories we read, helping us come to grips with our own fantasies and darker desires. We learn how to comfortably express our needs and innermost thoughts to our partners and explore how far we might want to take a new step in our D/S relationships.
For me, if a scene strikes me as interesting, I will give it to John to read and then we talk about the whys and hows.  Why is it interesting to me? How can it be enacted? John then tries to put the fantasy/fiction element into a reality based session.  At that point, I am able to truly distinguish the difference between reality and fantasy and what I want/need (or not) from him.  As he always tells me: be careful what you wish for.
Give it a go- fellow subs! Open up communication with your Doms- even the ‘vanilla’ D/S relationships can bloom when you share your fantasies or items you read and discuss how to make it real for you.
Oh yes- WHEN you do figure out how to become independently wealthy or stay perfectly young and gorgeous forever, please share it with the rest of us, ok? Those are two fantasies that I would Love to see become reality for me.  LOL!!!
Luvs and Kisses-  Bree

Poor Bree-Bree

I feel so sorry for my big sis. Bree really screwed up this time and she is looking at a serious session with Daddy. I can’t really say what she did -I am sure she will eventually, but needless to say, Daddy is not happy. I think I am going to make sure I am not in the house when Daddy disciplines her because I am sure it will upset me almost as much as her.

Positions- Presentation

Poor Nikki!  Once again, she’s being put through the ringer.  Daddy instructed me to teach her how to ‘properly’ present an implement to a Dom for discipline.  She’s in a panic, too!  For those of you who don’t know:
1.  Stand directly in front of your Dom/Domme holding the implement in the flat palms of your hands- the hand spread should be about 12″.  Keep your eyes downcast, but chin held up proudly.  You are showing respect.
2.  Gracefully lower yourself down to the floor- without using your hands.  This might take practice.  Maintain your posture- straight back, chin up, eyes down and hands straight in front of you.
3.  Knees spread 10-12″ apart, big toes touching behind you.  Keep your back straight, eyes down, chin up and  stretch the implement at arms length.  Sometimes the Dom will have you say something as your present it.
4.  Once he/she takes the implement, immediately touch your forehead to the floor with the flats of your hands facing down on either side.  This will force you to stick your bottom up in the air.
5.  A GOOD sub will thank his/her Dom when that implement strikes.  I’m NOT a good sub!

Luvs, Bree

Morning After– :(

Remember that song? There’s got to be a morning after…… ohhhhh, and what a tough morning it’s been.  It’s bad enough I had to work all night and not show how much my poor bottom hurt (I told my patient I just yanked out my back), but then the drive home and trying to sleep was even harder.  Poor Nikki was still passed out when I got home, but Daddy assured me she was ok.  I got my bubble bath and lots of loving after he saw his handiwork.  He knows I have ‘chicken tenders’ (our code for a sore bottom) and did lots of kissing of my ows.  He then made my favorite ‘breakfast’ (steak and eggs) with English tea and french vanilla creamer.  After tucking me in and kissing my forehead, he promised we would have a fun night when I wake up since I’m off.
Poor Nik- she climbed into bed with me a little while ago to wake me up and was crying because she is still so so sore.  Daddy forgets that she doesn’t have a leather butt like some of us.  I think she learned her lesson, though.  I certainly learned mine.  At least, for a while……

My First Punishment

First, I am supposed to say how it was watching Bree get punished last night. Let me just say, it was not fun.  Poor Bree really got it. Daddy was not happy with her because of her drinking and defiance. Her poor butt looked like hamburger.  I hope I never get punished like that. She got the cane, switched, strap, hand, and paddle. While I felt really sorry for her cause I love her (even though she is bossy), I was also really worried about my turn. And Bree had to go to work last night so she wasn’t even around to support me.

My punishment was no where near as severe as Bree’s but daddy lectured me and I got 100 spanks with his hand for being disrespectful and arguing, then 25 with an evil black paddle that has holes in it and hurts like a SOB and 15 with the strap because I lied and then 25 with my hair brush.  Daddy made me stand in the corner for one hour and I could not rub at all the entire time. Then he held me and told me I was forgiven. That was the only nice part.  Then I got sent to bed early.

I really need to learn to be respectful and not argue. Daddy says I need a “Sir” day. And every time I forget to answer properly I will get 35 spanks. I hope we don’t do this anytime soon because it still hurts to sit down.

I’m going to try really hard to have no additions to my book this week. It’s just not worth it.

Never Again! My bottom can’t take it–

Hey Y’all.  Not a happy little girl right now.  I’m at work, sitting very, very uncomfortably.  Daddy was extra harsh tonight- probably because Nikki was being forced to watch.  I felt so bad for her, too- especially since I had to leave for work before she received her discipline.  So, if I might give a word of advice- having a couple of glasses of wine and insisting on being defiant is not worth it.  Not this time.  I received a very long hand spanking with the dreaded lecture about how disappointed he is with me, how I need to provide a better example for my sister and that my health depends on being obedient (I’m diabetic).  As though his hand doesn’t hurt enough, but the OTK portion was followed by the hairbrush (for swearing during the spanking).  I was so embarrassed- kicking around and yelling like a two year old!  Then he made it more humiliating for me.  I had to bend across the bed for 25 of the strap and six of the cane.  Like my butt wasn’t already on fire enough- he bundled the three switches! This is for putting your health at risk, young lady!   I lost count of those ‘cuz I was too busy crying and trying to escape.  My poor bottom looks like it sat on a hot mesh grill.  Daddy made me stand in the corner, crying, with no rubbing for 15 minutes before he called me over to cuddle and hold me. My poor sister just cried.  I’m sorry she had to see that and I wish I did not have to drive or move around tonight.  At least I know that Daddy will take care of me when I come in tomorrow morning and everything will be forgiven.

I’m On My Way Home- Young Lady!

Oh boy- those were the last words I wanted to hear today!  All the things that are waiting to be applied to my bare bottom are about to happen.  What a glorious week it’s been- with him out of town for work and leaving Nikki and me alone.  He usually waits until Sunday nights to ‘deliver his message’ and, thankfully, he was gone this Sunday!  But  either this evening or tomorrow morning, I will be receiving my ‘comeuppance’ for my disobedient and disrespectful behavior.  Help?
POOR NIKKI! Other than a brief hand spanking, she hasn’t had to face Daddy’s wrath.  Her book is just filled with silly little things that she could have avoided.  But no- she has to have the last word!  To make it worse, John informed me that she will be witnessing MY discipline and then will give her ‘time’ to think about it before she is called to stand before him.  I don’t know who is more frightened- her or me.
Does anyone have room for me to move in before he gets home?
Luv You All,
Bree

Age-Play: Why, When, How?

I’ve been getting alot of questions lately about age-play: especially since many of my books incorporate this element in one way or another.  I’ll try to answer them, ok?  Please feel free to input any question or comments–
TO BE CLEAR: 
AGE-PLAY is NOT in anyway, shape or form a type of pedophilia- nor does it imply that one, or both, partners have any interest in minors
What age-play is:
Age-play (AP)is a form of D&S in which one partner adopts the characteristics of an infant to a school-aged child (0-17) while the other assumes the role of authority (parent, guardian, teacher, extended family member, etc).  AP is simply a type of role-play that presents itself naturally in the dynamics of a Dom/Sub relationship, and allows the sub to be taken to a time and place of complete vulnerability. It is, in my opinion, the most nurturing and trusting scenarios that can occur.  If the scene is conducted properly, it allows for extensive healing, confidence building and renewal of trust since the sub/adult child becomes completely dependent on his/her partner to meet all his/her needs.
What age-play is not:
It is not a license to abuse or neglect. Nor is AP about living out a BDSM fantasy of total control.
AP is probably the most unselfish lifestyle that a DS couple/family can practice.  To be therapeutic, it requires 100% of what the Dom gives and, likewise, what the sub relinquishes- to be freely and conscientiously offered
AP demands careful thought and decision making from the Dom to guide and provide for the adult child as though they were once again, a child. The adult ‘child’ trusts his/her Dom with the most vulnerable and delicate part of their heart, mind, spirit and body. The responsibility that falls to the ‘Adult’ is extensive and he/she must be committed to provide for the needs as required by the agreed upon age-group.This means setting proper examples, enforcing reasonable rules, providing appropriate boundaries, and carefully observing for any changes or hints that might trigger a negative response.  Yeah- adult child-rearing is alot of work for the Dom…. but the rewards, for both side, are immeasurable.
I could go into all types of scenes, examples, etc.- but right now I just wanted to share what you will see in my books about AP and why.  To me, AP is such an intimate part of my relationship with John and allows me to release myself completely to his care.  It is very difficult, to be honest, and there are Pros and Cons.  I have to release all my independence, thoughts, ideas, responsibilities and adult privileges to him and allow him complete control in directing me towards what he believes is best for me.
I don’t always like it. The loss of freedom, decision making and adult ‘rights’ is not something I enjoy.  And I don’t always submit to it graciously although I know that doing so will relieve me from worrying about anything except what Daddy John has me do.
The benefits:
I think it’s easier to ‘show,’ not just ‘tell’…..  After a hard night at work (I’m a hospice nurse), I come home stressed and very tired.  I walk in and Daddy has the bubble bath ready for me with toys and pretty scented soap.  Almost immediately, I can let go of being a grown-up and, with that, the tension and anxiety that follows me in from my adult life.  He undresses me, helps me into the tub, washes my hair and plays with me (I’m not allowed to splash him though).
This natural and unpretentious act of him caring for me in the simplest of ways allows me to shed my ‘male’ and enter into my ‘female’.  He’s very aware regarding my tension level and conducts himself accordingly.  If I’m upset, I’m cuddled, he feeds me and brushes out my hair, then sings me to sleep as he holds me. If I’m cranky and not responding well, then I’m fed and put to bed for a long talk later.  If I’m defiant or refuse to let him take care of me, well…. that usually does not go well and I have a sore bottom with corner time, and then fed and put to bed.  Every day is different- yet it is always consistent.
The AP element exists in all healthy DD/DS relationships to a certain degree- whether you call your Dom ‘daddy’, ‘sir’, ‘master’, or King of the Universe (John’s personal favorite).  It involves letting go of control and inhibitions to the base-nature of our humanity. There is nothing more precious to a loving parent than their child- and nothing more wonderful and strong to a child than a loving parent. AP allows us to live in that precious, unassuming place- even for a little while.

 

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