USA Today!


So proud of Bree! Dare To Defy was featured in USA Today HEA section! Woot Woot! Way to go Bree!! You can check it out here!



Dare to Defy by Breanna Hayse (Stormy Night Publications). Daynel has always chafed at the role she is expected to play as the princess of the Northern Kingdom, preferring to train as a warrior like her brothers, and she is far from prepared to meekly submit when she learns that she is to be given in marriage to the prince of the Southern Kingdom. Her unwillingness to be a footstool for an arrogant prince quickly becomes the least of her worries, however, when a priestess of the ancient dragon gods informs Daynel that her betrothed has dark and terrible designs for her and for the world… and that only she can save her people.

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Mean Old Mama Bear…..


 Warm Mama Bear and Baby Bear love each other (17)



Grrrrr. Scared?


Have any of you ever had one of those ah-hah moments when a serious situation suddenly makes sense? Here it is, past midnight, and a stray AH-HAH smacked me between the eyes.


I was talking to one of my girls tonight about a situation she had gotten herself into. She was doing her regular negotiating, bribing, arguing, pleading… You get the idea… Trying to get out of her punishment. Oh, just an FYI (Piper) a blistered finger is not an excuse to be given leniency when writing lines.


Anyway, after being called some colorful adjectives and being compared to a couple of specific body parts,  I shared about tough love. Anyone who has been through therapy, rehab or long term disease learns quickly what that phrase means. It starts with the hearing of the most hated word in this planet.. NO.


NO, I will not stand by and watch you hurt yourself

NO, I will not assist in helping you hurt yourself

NO, I will not withhold my love for you by telling you, yes….


Tough love is as hard for those who give it as it is to take. But I ask you… If you see a child run into the street, would you not do anything possible to keep him from being hit by an oncoming car? Oh, yeah… he will scream at you because he wants… ice-cream.. a ball… Or just whatever…. And he won’t even try to understand the reason behind your withholding of pleasure from him. He cannot… He is selfish and hell-bent on getting what he wants, and when he wants it.  He is also very willing to throw any type of childish fit to get it, including a delightful variety of threats and attempts at guilt.


I am proud to say that my girl did none of these things, btw. Oh, she is still pouting, but she know we love her.


So many of us are like this selfish child in my example.  Someone who truly loves us finally steps up to the plate and shows that they care enough to say NO. We thank them by throwing either a pity party (woe is meeeeee) or a temper tantrum befitting a five year at Lego Land who can’t go on any more rides (no, Nik never did that… She waited for when we went to Disney). And then, when confronted with this behavior, we stomp our feet and pout to elicit sympathy and attention. Or, even better, insist that we knew what we were doing all along and did not need help.


Woe be to the person who calls us on that!!! And anyone who know me, well….. You will hear it! Manipulative behavior and Mama Bear are like oil and water! Ask Nik!


In the natural world, a fledgling is thrown out of the nest to force it to learn to fly. Some, sadly, fail to put full effort into the skill and fall to their deaths. Others soar… Choosing to face their fears and rise above them.  The ones who refuse to leave the nest become the target of predators. They are devoured by those who slink likes snake in the branches, feeding on the weak.


Sir John has been mentoring and training women for nearly thirty years, encouraging them to grow to be strong, smart and powerful in both their vanilla world and as submissives. Every one of his babies has been tossed into the air to force them to fly, and they trusted his judgement that they were ready. The ones who allowed fear to overtake them in mid-flight were ones that he has caught and brought back to help them grow until they, too, have flown to discover their own lives.


Unfortunately, there have been ones who refused to leave the nest, content in hankering down and having others bring them what they demanded. Initially, they began with speaking the right words and having good intentions until they discovered that the work was harder or more uncomfortable than they desired. Thank God they have been few and far between. Nonetheless, they chose to ignore the lessons and refuse to grow, remaining in that nest and becoming targets for predators. SJ could not force them to fly and, even with his warnings, they resisted every step of the way-with prideful insistence that they knew better.


Many of my readers ask us how do I know if I am a submissive? I thinkI finally have the best answer for now…


You will know your degree of submission by the degree of willingness you have to accept, be grateful for, and comply to the truth surrounding tough love.

Don’t allow fear or pride to bind you and steal your life from you. This is a choice. No one can make it for you, either. I challenge anyone who reads this that, today, you make a choice to strengthen your tomorrow. And please share. who knows? Maybe your choice is one that a nestling needs to stretch her wings and fly!

Love, Bree


Smart IS a Turn On…




I’m baaack!!!!  Did you miss me?  I missed all of you…So, I was thinking, well actually I was talking to Bree. As you all know, she is a super mensa head brainiac. Which  I find very attractive. In fact, this is the subject of my post; “Subbies With a Brain”. A lot of times in the vanilla dating world, very smart women feel they must tone down their intellect.To not make the guy feel intimidated. Granted, a lot of vanilla guys like that, but here’s a big heads up for you all; Doms do not like that. In fact,  I have always sought out a female that was smart. Really smart.  You see, no matter how good a Dom spanks, he can not spank you 24/7 non stop..I mean I can’t even do that; 15/7 tops!  lol


Ok, back to reality. If you are looking for a Dom, be yourself. That is, if you are smart, do not try and be cute and play dumb. A Dom will see right through that and move on quickly. Speaking for myself, one of the things, yes many things,I love about Bree, is her mind. She is not only smart, but very perceptive and has great insights, especially into the human condition. Dom’s love smart women. Trust me on this. After you have a session, or before, what are you going to talk about? You do not have to be super brain like Bree, but you need to have  some academia in your background. If you feel you are lacking, read or go to school. Even online school.  As a Dom, I like  a subbie that is stimulating. Not only as my D/s partner, but mentally. Now I have more street smarts than Bree   and certainly know more about pop culture than she does. However, just about anything else, and its the Breanna Hayse show all the way, which incidentally, I really dig. It’s always so interesting to talk to her. She surprises me all the time with the stuff she knows, and Doms are never intimidated by smart women. Its a big D/s perk for you.


So my lovelies, the way to a vanilla guys heart may be through his stomach. And though  Bree happens to be a gourmet cook,  thats beside the point. The way to a Doms heart, is through his brain.That, and having a nice spankable bottom  doesn’t hurt. lol


So ladies, never ever dumb it down for a Dom. That will get you nothing. Certainly not the red bottom you are Jonsing for. With a real Dom, a subbie with a brain is practically irresistible.


Be good or else!



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Being Quirky…




Hi, Y’all! I am soooooo glad you like the snippet from my newest creation.. I WITNESS PROTECTION!

It is really fun to write because, not only do I have to focus on the WHO DONE IT part (you know me and my twists), but also because I am exposing some of my own little quirks in it!

Ahhh, the quirk… We all have them. They are the little things that make us unique and set apart from everyone else. Some, like John’s need to hide the remote control under his thigh to keep it away from us… Can get to be annoying.

BTW, did you know you can get a universal remote and program it to your TV and use it to change the channel and adjust the volume while your significant other thinks he is in control????  Just saying….

Some of you know about some of Nikki’s quirks…. Making me start an apple for her… Ravioli from a can only… Having to have the bath matt at exactly a 90 degree angle from the tub…. Food cannot touch each other on a plate….

Me? I am the worse in this family. Toast must be buttered to the very edge….. Pop tarts cut to separate the edges and the inside in squares…. Bed has to be made before I can sleep in it….. And so many more…….

What are your quirks? Share and maybe you might see some show up in this next book!!! Collin has to have a few of his own too, you know….




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