I Love TV 2

Hello lovelies,

I kind of got away from this last week with my favorite subbie excuses but as promised back to the present version of the females that need spankings on TV (at least as far as I am concerned and it’s my post so…)

First off there are far too many for a top ten so, I will have one and some honorable mentions.

Big Bang Theory

Penny

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H/M: Amy, Bernadette, Leonard’s Mom

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Criminal Minds

Emily Prentis

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H/M: Penelope Garcia, Jennifer Jareau

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Game of Thrones

Daenerys Targaryen

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H/M: Margery Tyrell, Melisanddre, Cersei Lanister

True Blood

Jessica Hamby

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H/M: Sookie Stackhouse, Pam de Beaufort

Boardwalk Empire

Margaret Schroeder

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H/M: Gillian Angela, Darmody

TNA

Mickie  James

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H/M: Brooke Tessmacher, Velvet Sky

WWE

Bella twins

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H/M: Natalia, Lana

Ok, no hating on the divas of WWE and TNA, lol. It’s my list!!

Oh and of course, everyone on Beverly Hills Housewives and any female that ever played Survivor. Bree pulled me into watching BH Housewives a few times and now has me hooked, in addition to Survivor. The list is stuff I watch with the exception of Game of Thrones, Big Bang and True Blood, (sadly canceled) which we watch together. That’s a few of my picks, as promised. Until next time…

Be good, or else…

SJ

 

Manipulation

Psychological manipulation is a type of social influence that aims to change the perception or behavior of others through underhanded, deceptive, or abusive tactics. By advancing the interests of the manipulator, often at another’s expense, such methods could be considered exploitative, abusive, devious, and deceptive.

SO WHY DO SO MANY PEOPLE TOLERATE THOSE WHO DO THIS?

As many of your know, I work pro bono as a therapist and deal with all kinds of abuse situations- Spousal, employers, financial… you name it and that type of abuse is seen on my desk. I have a client who recently took a stand and confronted an abusive employer with his activities and agenda. Things that were seen AND experienced by all her coworkers. She knew going in that his response would not be one of maturity, repentance or responsibility- and that he would find a way to turn the tables. Sure enough- instead of him accepting responsibility for the demeaning comments and actions against her- he loaded her with guilt and tried to make himself the victim.. He then turned the others against her- people who knew the truth but were too weak willed and afraid to stand on their own two feet against him. And the situation is not like they had nowhere else to go- this was CHOICE. Doesn’t anyone have any self-respect anymore?

Before I began writing full time, I worked for a person who did that same thing- if I DARED stand up for myself and exposed the behavior, then he would throw either the insult or guilt card at me. I worked HARD and he was altering reports to claim as his and gain credit. The clients knew it- the coworkers knew it- and behind his back, everyone talked and said it was wrong. But when it came to confrontation- I was made to be the bad guy. He claimed that I was not a team player, that I hurt my coworkers by not allowing him to claim credit, and a myriad of other ridiculous and childish things. It wasn’t enough that he made money off my work- he had to OWN it as his (which he could not legally do). He even used the ‘you have to trust me because I’m a Christian card! The honest Christians I know don’t manipulate, steal, lie, coerce, deceive and mess around on their spouses– and those who do, I can’t help but question the foundation of their faith.

OMG- the emails we all received (and we all have kept to remind ourselves that he was a deceptive manipulative jerk) were amazing. He would not cut any corners with the attempt to manipulate and coerce- and when intimidation and threats didn’t work, he tried to stab into the heart. He had no problem in even claiming that the stress I brought him was so great that I could cause him marital problems! (Not the fact he had his hands on every woman he could or that he embezzled from the company and was under investigation for it). I was just waiting for the next play- that he would claim that I caused his wife to lose her baby or their dog to be run over by a car. Yeah, he held back nothing in his desperate attempt to NOT take responsibility. I knew I had other options for work and took my talents elsewhere- many followed afterword but yet he still continues these behaviors with the delusional belief that the people he works with are so stupid that they will allow this disgusting behavior to continue indefinitely. You can only imagine how he laughs at them behind their backs! And, yes, they deserve it- they know the truth but are too afraid to stand together and stop it.

WHY DOES ONE TOLERATE ABUSE and BULLYING? Especially in a situation where you have options to get out?

I decided at that moment to stand up against those who use people for self-gain and who bully people in accepting their sick and selfish agenda. The abusers also know that if they ever got in my face that I will expose them openly. I wish I could trust that they are smart enough to avoid me- but most abusers are so filled with delusions of grandeur that they can’t help but try to get the last word. Dumb move- because that is what proves themselves a fool every time.

These people come in all shapes and sizes and relationships. They don’t care about anyone except themselves and, quite often, their bank account. How many times are you going to allow fear to force you to make choices that you know are not healthy or productive for you, your family or your career? If you have a support network- put it into play and say NO to bullies and manipulators. They don’t care about you- and the more guilt they throw in your direction proves that. You owe them nothing- and need to ask yourself- why associate with them?

YOU can stop this behavior. YOU can recognize an abusive relationship and stop it. YOU have the choice to get out of it and preserve yourself. This is about YOU- your safety and your life. Few abusers change their stripes- just the color- and you don’t have to be their prey any longer. Stop the abuse- take a stand- and gain respect for yourself and your life. YOU CAN DO IT!

 

Switched #SatSpanks

Saturday Spankings

We introduced a little time travel, western earlier in the week but now it’s official. This book in the final stages of publication with Blushing Books. Switched in Time will make an appearance next Saturday, June 20th! Don’t forget to check the other great spanking authors that are sharing over at the Saturday Spankings Blog.

Switched in Time

Nya Lynn Crow is stuck in a boring life. Her only real joy exists in attending BDSM and kinkster parties with her best friend, Tawni. However, even those events are being ruined by a woman who’s out to destroy her, and because of whom Nya ends up being drugged, beaten and left to die on a mesa in the Sandia mountain foothills.

She tries to walk home in the dark and stumbles on to ancient Indian burial grounds, only to awaken in the care of two very handsome ranchers who are strong, kind, and ridiculously old-fashioned. While they nurse her back to health, she finds herself yearning for modern conveniences—conveniences that she soon discovers have not yet been invented.

Flint Masters, stern cowboy and owner of High River Ranch, takes an instant shine to this beautiful but strange ‘half-breed’, but her lack of proper manners and inability to follow direction grate on his nerves. As a result, Nya soon discovers that all the fantasies and role playing games she so enjoyed enacting before at BDSM events are nothing like the reality of a real, hard, old-fashioned spanking. She’s also quick to learn that her sexual appetite is something beyond the ‘polite society’ expectations of a gentleman rancher; and her desires end up inviting not only another switching, but also fulfillment the likes of which she’s never before experienced.

Can a modern, sexually expressive, and highly opinionated young woman survive in the Old West in 1863, surrounded by cowboys, Vaqueros and Apache Indians?

Especially when time proves itself to be cyclic, and Nya finds herself face to face with her old nemesis once again—only this time, the evil woman is trying to not just destroy her, but every Apache and Vaquero in the territory. Nya must decide whether to stand up to her for once and for all, or to run and hide, and she ends up risking everything, including her blossoming relationship with Flint, to saves the lives of the people around her, and to hopefully make the future a better place for all of them.

This fast-paced Western adventure is full of what fans have come to love and expect from Breanna Hayse; gorgeous men; strong, opinionated, curiously vulnerable women; sizzling spankings and rich historic detail; with a witty dose of humor thrown in for good measure.

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Flint marched angrily in her direction and grabbed her good arm. “What got into you, girl? When we get home, you are gonna know what a sore backside feels like. You are never to speak to anyone like that again, hear me? Especially anyone associated with Eloise.”

“Let go of me,” she ordered, unable to pull away.

“No. We are going to the mercantile, get you some proper clothes and then your bottom is going across my knee.  You better start looking worried, too. You are going to learn a lesson in manners, young lady.”

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Coming June 20th!

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