Motivational Spankings

What do you think about motivational spankings? Daddy seems to think they are important. Personally, I am not so sure. I think I could live without them. Especially the day after being paddled and still wearing bruises from said paddling. What do you think? Do you get motivational spankings? I am thinking we should take a poll on here and maybe that could decide the verdict about whether I get them or not. What do you think? After the verdict is in, Bre can tell Daddy!

Fantasy vs. Reality

Hello, my friends…. this has been a week of learning new lessons and reinforcing old ones.  My poor sister will attest to that.  I wanted to share some thoughts I have regarding ‘real world’ vs ‘fantasy world’ that most of us subs seem to have.  First- let me thank all of you for your continued support with my books!  Your positive reviews and encouragement have been lifting them all into the top ten of Blushing’s List.
As you know, the story lines/plots in my stories are fiction/fantasy with multiple scenes based on reality.  I can’t help but chuckle when I read a review regarding an ‘unrealistic’ element in any author’s work.  Of course it is!  It wouldn’t be fiction, right?  Who of us have not dreamed of being a mermaid? Or winning the Lotto?  Or being perfectly smart, talented, beautiful…… I mean, if all of the books we read were based on reality- there would be a LOT more 35 and under, 6’5″, rich, smart, hot, available men then we would know what to do with! And very few of us would ever reach the 30 year old mark (or gain weight, get cellulite, wrinkles or gray hair).  Right?  So I say on behalf of my fellow authors- just sit back and enjoy!
Seriously- how many of us would really want to live the ‘lives’ of our characters or scenarios? Not me, for sure- especially enduring the frequency/severity in which our poor, slow-learning heroine finds herself OTK.  Heck- in my real life, I’m in enough trouble as it is– I certainly wouldn’t want more!
We often  enjoy living vicariously through the stories we read, helping us come to grips with our own fantasies and darker desires. We learn how to comfortably express our needs and innermost thoughts to our partners and explore how far we might want to take a new step in our D/S relationships.
For me, if a scene strikes me as interesting, I will give it to John to read and then we talk about the whys and hows.  Why is it interesting to me? How can it be enacted? John then tries to put the fantasy/fiction element into a reality based session.  At that point, I am able to truly distinguish the difference between reality and fantasy and what I want/need (or not) from him.  As he always tells me: be careful what you wish for.
Give it a go- fellow subs! Open up communication with your Doms- even the ‘vanilla’ D/S relationships can bloom when you share your fantasies or items you read and discuss how to make it real for you.
Oh yes- WHEN you do figure out how to become independently wealthy or stay perfectly young and gorgeous forever, please share it with the rest of us, ok? Those are two fantasies that I would Love to see become reality for me.  LOL!!!
Luvs and Kisses-  Bree

Poor Bree-Bree

I feel so sorry for my big sis. Bree really screwed up this time and she is looking at a serious session with Daddy. I can’t really say what she did -I am sure she will eventually, but needless to say, Daddy is not happy. I think I am going to make sure I am not in the house when Daddy disciplines her because I am sure it will upset me almost as much as her.

Positions- Presentation

Poor Nikki!  Once again, she’s being put through the ringer.  Daddy instructed me to teach her how to ‘properly’ present an implement to a Dom for discipline.  She’s in a panic, too!  For those of you who don’t know:
1.  Stand directly in front of your Dom/Domme holding the implement in the flat palms of your hands- the hand spread should be about 12″.  Keep your eyes downcast, but chin held up proudly.  You are showing respect.
2.  Gracefully lower yourself down to the floor- without using your hands.  This might take practice.  Maintain your posture- straight back, chin up, eyes down and hands straight in front of you.
3.  Knees spread 10-12″ apart, big toes touching behind you.  Keep your back straight, eyes down, chin up and  stretch the implement at arms length.  Sometimes the Dom will have you say something as your present it.
4.  Once he/she takes the implement, immediately touch your forehead to the floor with the flats of your hands facing down on either side.  This will force you to stick your bottom up in the air.
5.  A GOOD sub will thank his/her Dom when that implement strikes.  I’m NOT a good sub!

Luvs, Bree

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