Christmas is just around the corner so have you been naughty or nice?
My post this week is about some of the different types of subbies. There are many many types of subbies, none more right than the next. I am just going to touch on a few that I have experience interacting with but the main thing I want you to understand is that, as the title says one size does not fit all. What may work for you might not work for someone else and vice versa.
For this post let’s deal with 3 specific types of subbies and how the dynamic can change, and must change with each. First, is the big subbie. This is a grown woman who needs boundaries and discipline. Second, is the middle subbie. This is a grown woman that likes to act as a teenager, still in need of boundaries and discipline. Third are the littles. Grown women who tend to act much younger, sometimes as young as 3 or 4, but also in need of boundaries and discipline.
It’s interesting having a lot of subbies. I have all of these levels of subbies in the different women I train. I had a recent conversation with a middle who said “Well if I brat as a middle then no discipline.”
Wrong…very very wrong.
Let me give you an example for each type. Let’s take misbehavior like being sassy. Not anything that requires severity but everyone must be approached differently.
The big: This would usually be handled OTK with my hand, the paddle or brush and certainly hard enough for a blazing bottom. Maybe 150 or so hand and 50 brush if the sassiness was as bad as possible followed by some corner time, scolding and finishing with after care.
The middle: Also OTK with my hand but about 50 then maybe 25 with the brush or so with added corner time, scolding and maybe lines. Always after care.
The little: OTK with my hand about 25 then possibly 15 with the brush. Of course corner time, lines, scolding and lots of after care.
So you see how different each approach is? Like I said one size definitely does not fit all. I bet some of you are thinking ‘ok, I’m switching to little, they don’t get spanked as hard’ lol. Unfortunately or fortunately, you must be who you are naturally. Some of you are littles but not all of you. Remember no matter big, little, or middle there are always consequences.
Be good, or else…