Sometimes You Have to Switch Things Up

Hello Lovelies,

Well as some of you may know, Bree and I got the boarders in the car and took off for a day at a secluded cabin that I booked. We had a great time and Bree has a reminder of our trip, some nice red stripes on her bottom.

You see once we settled in, we went for a walk to explore the property. I told her to be careful while walking around but she kept walking fast, not watching where she was going. I warned her, “Bree, you’re going to fall. Slow down.” But no and ….boom right on her bottom.

She wasn’t hurt but I was not pleased. I told her, “If you want something to do, go get a switch and get back to the cabin.”

Of course she began whining and apologizing for not listening to me but it was too little and too late. When we got back, I told her to get her pants and panties down and touch her toes. After she had done so, I began scolding her about listening to me and not being so reckless.

25 red stripes later, she was in the corner. She is quite sore today with some nice red stripes.

Maybe I had a better time on our trip than she did, lol.

Be good or else,

SJ

The Brush Off

Hello Lovelies,

So here’s a little story and a question.

Bree decided to brat some, she was jonsing for a spanking, lol. Anyway she got a few and was told to settle down or she would get the brush.

She did not like that and threw a temper tantrum. About 5 mins later, she was in the corner whining with a flaming red bb. I did warn her but she decided to push me.

Here’s my question: Do you feel littles should only be spanked by hand or also with a brush or paddle if they keep acting out?

Be good or else,

SJ

Look Into My Eyes

Hello Lovelies,

I want to talk about something that will make things a little easier for your Doms (for a change lol). Doms range in skill, some are great at discipline, some scolding, some more mental than others, etc. But one thing your Doms cannot do…(unless he is an alien, lol)… is read your mind.

If something is a problem for you, especially a hard limit, tell him. Don’t think he can read you and know. Instead of getting mad, remember you did not say anything. So how would he know?

A Dom will respect your hard limits if he knows what they are, but don’t forget you have to tell him.

Trust me, even if it is hard or embarrassing, you’ll be much better off. Better that then a session going bad or even a nice day ruined over lack of communication.

Be good or else,

SJ

 

D/s…the D Does Not Stand for Democracy

Hello Lovelies,

Well here’s the deal, I feel I need to reiterate something: you ladies do NOT have a say in how you are spanked except for a subspace session.

Bree is a very well behaved sub, but even she seems to have forgotten this lately.

Just yesterday I decided that her bottom was much too white. So, I began changing that and Bree started telling me how she wanted to be spanked!!! You know like: owww not so hard, slower, rub… that kind of thing.

Lovelies, I will tell you like I did her, the sub does not decide how she is spanked, or when, or with what for that matter.

So remember once you enter into a D/s relationship, your rights to decide about a spanking go out the window. The D in D/s does NOT stand for democracy, it stands for dictatorship…lol.

Be good or else,

SJ

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