Breanna Hayse

Well, my friends… It is going to be happening! What, you ask? Boy, howdy.. a load of things.

First, plans are moving forward for me transitioning into working part-time in my ‘vanilla’ field! Yep, James has finally convinced me and, this week, we aregetting the office set up so that I can devote a good four days a week to writing! Is that exciting, or what? Maybe not so much for Nikki… because I plan on being home a lot more.. but who knows? Maybe I can press her into exploring her own creativity! Or she will be so sick of me, she will get a job.

Second, and this is the BIG thing… John and I are going to write a book together! It will be non-fiction and direct how we, personally, set up a D&S household. As a professional counselor, I will also discuss different factors that may present themselves, and how to handle them- in both the D&S and vanilla aspects of the journey. We hope to provide a safe, informational guideline that will benefit those of you out there who desire to explore and/or grow in this type of lifestyle. As there are many different types of individuals, there is also many different personalities to the lifestyle, and we will do our best to cover as many of them as we can. We will also cover the pros and cons, ways to weasel (from yours truly), and warning signs to prevent negative repercussions. Your safety and happiness is most important to us, and we have seen too many peeps being led in dangerous directions by incorporating physical, mental and emotional techniques in the ‘name’ of obedience. This will NOT be a book about BDSM, nor are we going to address any religious practices within it. So, for those ofyou who wish to be Tops… we hope this will help guide you. And you Bottoms… The gift of submission is one to be cherished and nurtured, and our hope is to communicate that as well as possible.

A word of warning…. this week has reminded me that being a strong, consistent dominant is exhausting! I mean, it is hard work! It had also reinforced the trust and faith a Dom and his/her submissive must develop in his/her relationship. In a sense, this book will be a guidelines for a happy, healthy and communication based marriage/commitment. So wish us luck! Why? Because Nikki is going to be typing it all out as John dictates his side! She just doesn’t know that yet……

Luvs!

Breanna

Hey Peeps!

If you haven’t guessed, one of my passions as a psychologist and a counselor is to bring my readers to a place of self-discovery. I do it by introducing thoughts, feelings, conflict and different desires in my books. My present work-in-progress, Blindfolded, will be about forcing the heroine to face her innermost conflict. How does she handle it? How would you?

I would love to open up a book discussion for you guys. Not to argue, but to discuss how certain scenes and interaction affected you, the audience, and why. No judgement calls, no insults, all keeping an open mind that every person will view things differently based in their own life experience, morals, ethics, religious views, and fantasies. Many times, we find ourselves becoming angry or defensive when certain things ‘hit us the wrong way’ (no pun intended). Since every one of my books has a certain theme, or lesson, being brought to surface, I think it would be fun, and educational, if we could start talking about them. Whatcha think?

Anyone wanna take the plunge?

Luvs,

Bree

Hey Peeps! Yeah, I’m at it again, bringing some more shocks and surprises to you…. this time in The Reformer! Before I begin, it MUST be stated that this technique not be done around the throat, too tightly or without a sharp pair of scissors close at hand….

Kinbaku is also known as Japanese Rope Bondage. I was first introduced to it when I lived in Okinawa and, unknowing, ventured into a BDSM club. In the very front of the room, suspended from the ceiling, was a woman. She was naked and covered with intricate designs made of rope! I was captivated… the artistic beauty of both the bondage and upon her face, took my breath away.

Admittedly, I’m a bit of a pain slut, but the idea of being contorted into unnatural positions never really appealed to me. I mean, I’m not a human pretzel…. but some of these Bottoms…. WOW! It is beautiful to look at and, for those who enjoy the rougher side of play, very satisfying. I encourage anyone who is interested in trying this to do your homework and seek out professional training. The issue of safety must always be on the forefront… and SAFE WORDS are necessary. Too many things can go wrong!

In The Reformer, the technique known as the turtle, or diamond knot, is introduced. It is very beautiful, very sensual and erotic, and also requires the utmost trust of the submissive to his/her Dom.  

Luvs, Bree

BULLSHIT!

Thanks to my darling sister, we have a new implement in our family. Oooo, I want to smack her. If you can’t tell, I’m NOT in the mood for her ‘cuteness’, and she just loves to push me. She gave John this stupid hairbrush and, of course, he wanted to try it out. On me…. and I’m not talking about my hair.

So I did what any well-trained, respectful and obedient submissive would do. I protested. LOUDLY. And then, in a moment of insanity, I did the unthinkable… I slapped the hairbrush out of his hand.

I should have known by the look in his eyes to immediately apologize. Nikki was the smart one this time, and kaboodled out of there FAST. But, damn it…. I was not in the mood!

Not that it matters. Sure enough, I found myself upended and over his knee for a real taste of that stupid, stupid, stupid hairbrush. He prefaced it with “Breanna, this could have been so easy for you, but you had to push me. I’m sorry, but this will hurt me much more than it hurts you….”

Yeah, tell that to my bottom! That f***ing brush stung like you would not believe! He finally stopped and holding me over his lap, asked what my next smart-ass move was going to me. Of course, I answered,

“Sue these jerks for false advertising. That is NOT an ouchless brush!”

Luvs, Bree

P.S. Nikki better watch her back!

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