Ok, let’s lay it out on the table… Or the floor… The couch.. The lawn… Hell, anywhere! One thing that I am SO loving about my fans is their courage to ask the hard questions. I don’t know… Maybe its because its easier to communicate when you don’t have to look at someone face to face, or the fact that I expose everything under the sun, but the questions are coming… And this question is about that. Coming.
Because I am not a man, I can only share what is told to me. So guys, I am so sorry, but this is about us girls and our lady parts, and how they function best. Please speak up if you have any thoughts or ideas… I am certain the gals would like to hear from you.
That mind shattering, roof blowing, OH MY GOD “O” is a special something that does not come automatically. I mean… It takes work! Believe it or not, there are several different types of orgasms that a woman can achieve. And she is not limited to just one or one type. Jealous guys? Hey, you were equipped with the accoutrements that make it easy to pee outside, so we deserve something of equal, or greater value, in the plumbing department, right?
Ok… We all know about the special little turn on switch known as the clitoris, or clit. John calls it his love bud. Dorky, I know… But hey, as long as he pays attention to it, I don’t care if he names it Fred. Of course, I will counter it by naming his Queen Sophia….
It is a unique little bundle of nerves that serves a single purpose… Pleasure. Upon its ‘activation’ during orgasm, the woman instinctively opens her pelvis to engulf the penis, enhancing the sensation of penetration as well as widening the cervical mouth for maximum sperm dispersal. So ladies… If you wanna make a baby, have your guy work on giving you AWESOME Os!
The clit is very sensitive and every gal has a different tolerance level. Some can be tickled with a feather, others… Myself included… Want a motorboat engine. Ether way, it is vital that the area be kept moist, otherwise pain from friction can develop. Also, the movement should be constantly changed… Direction, pressure, tactile differences. Our little friend can grow bored if the finger, toy or tongue stays in one spot, never changing. Circle, stroke, suck, squeeze…. She will just go to sleep on you (which is what I suspect happened with our ). His intentions were good… But technique takes practice and communication. Tell your partner what you like and what you need. Even if your partner is a female, being the same gender does not mean she can read your mind. Her body works differently than yours, so talk!
The incredible inny…. The G spot DOES exist. If you insert your finger into your vagina and run it along that ridge along the top, you will feel the pelvic roof. It suddenly takes a dip towards the back and gets real soft and cuddly… The little area, right behind the bone and tucked in a tiny pocket, is where this little treasure is hiding. Once again, it is a special bundle of nerves designed to enhance pleasure and create opportunity for greater sperm access. With the right angle.. And this takes practice, the penis can stimulate the spot with the ridge of the head…
Betcha didn’t know that sweet thing actually had a reason to exist! Yeppers, it is all for you! There are toys out there designed for G spot penetration but, to be honest with you, the only one I have found that is effective is the tiered one. Oh baby…. A little practice and it has you screaming for more. Again, moisture, peeps. Tongue play is also awesome during the ‘plunge’ if using a toy…..
Breast-gasms….. Yes, some of us can come simply with breast play. Again, being sensitive to your partners needs and communication is vital. Likewise, neck-gasms…. From chewing on the neck, wristgasms….
And SPANK-GASMS…. That is a whole different article!!!!!
My next article will be…. Savor the flavor! How not to be shy during oral sex!
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