Saturday Spankings

 

Saturday Spankings

 

Hey peeps! Its that time of the week again…time for Sat Spanks and this week once again I am going to put an excerpt from Bree’s current work in progress-Dare To Defy.  Because this is such a hot book, and because I am on vacation and feeling really nice, Im gonna put a really, really, hot excerpt up. Hope you  love it!

 

After reading, please hop on over the the Sat Spanks blog site and enjoy the other blogs to see what your favorite authors are up to.

 

Dare To Defy

“My darling, as much as I love your body, you cannot always think that you can… distract… my… thoughts….” His voice groan as she knelt at his feet and ran her hands up the inside of his thighs and then around to cup his firm buttocks in her hands.

“I do not think… I know,” she grinned playfully, tugging at his stays.  He grabbed her wrist and pulled her to her feet.

“You have mischief in your eyes, beloved. This is neither the time nor the place to defy me.”

“When it comes to your body, I dare defy you every moment I have opportunity,” Ilesbet grinned, running her lips against the left side of his neck.

“Ilesbet, no.  Not now. Woman! Stop this,” Günter demanded as she rolled her palms under his vest and ran the pads of her thumbs over his chest, pausing to tempt his nipples.

Ilesbet raised her eyebrow, a smirk on her face. “No,” she said simply.

“It has been too long since I had to force discipline upon you, wife. Obey me!” came the order, which was promptly ignored as she unlaced his shirt and pressed her lips to the center of his chest.

With a throaty growl, Günter snatched Ilesbet’s wrists in his large hands and pulled her arms high in the air, making her to stand upon her toes before him. Her breasts quivered as they were stretched, begging for attention. His eyes roamed over her voluptuous curves, remembering the pleasure every soft inch brought to his bed. But she was being deliberately disobedience, challenging him in a way she had not done since the birth of their first son.  He had forgotten her demands of the past. Demands for pain, as well as pleasure.

Ilesbet’s eyes met his, daring him to proceed. A fire rose within them, tempting his warrior spirit. He rose her higher, easily lifting her from the ground by her wrists.

“You wish pain today, my love. It has been many years since you have brought this upon yourself. Do you wish to tell me your reason?”

“I need no reason for my desire. The children no longer require a nursemaid and I may return to the longings of my youth. I trust you not to harm me,” Ilesbet said huskily, the strain in her shoulders sending waves of sensation through the length of her body. “Please. Give me what I need.”

Günter stared at her for a moment and then silently released her, settling her bare feet upon the cold ground. “Prepare yourself. We will leave for the thicket shortly.”

Ilesbet wobbled, her excitement growing as she anticipated the long awaited event in the hidden thicket. He had last taken her there for discipline after she had overly indulged in sacramental wine and had displayed herself in a manner that displeased him greatly. That was well over fifteen years passed. She reached for a cape to cover her naked body, determined to find a way to lightly raise his ire and help distract both of them from the grim situation. Her ploy worked. Gunther’s frown deepened when he realized that she had failed to dress properly or show any concern for her plight. She responded by simply lifting her chin higher and tilting her head.

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Saturday Spankings-OMG This is a HOT ONE!!!

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OK Nikki Here. Now I am gonna do something that I don’t actually have permission for…I’m gonna put the book, Dare To Defy, on here even though it is a very rough work in progress. But sista!(and brotha) it is ducking hot! So….Keep in mind. The publisher has not yet read this. Its truly and infant in the publishing process. But its still amazing. So hold onto your panties and get ready for a fun ass ride! And while you are at it, pray for me. Cause I forgot my liceense the other day and had to come home for it and so it is a book entry. Pray please that daddy is nice to me.

 

Oh and after you read the excerpt, head on over to the saturday spankings blog to check out the awesome blogs

 

Dare To Defy

An amazingly hot ass book.

 

“Must you always fight to win a battle, little one? You are already in severe trouble as it stands.”

“You taught me to never face a battle that I intend to lose. Why start now?” Daynel spat back, pouring herself a goblet of wine and downing the contents in one gulp. “I must know. Will you be true to your promise to claim me should this Ethan be any less than you expect?”

“I promise to claim you should I believe you to be in a danger. Do not twist my words. Now, we have your punishment to attend to, so cease delaying me. Remove your gown.”

“Why?” Daynel’s eyes widened as he slowly unlaced his wide leather belt from around his waist.

“You know why. You shall not be sitting without discomfort for a day or two. Do as I say.”

“That… that is a child’s punishment, Günter! I will not submit to it!”

“I have not laid a hand upon your backend in many years. To both of our sorrow. Obey me, lest I anger.”

Daynel stared at him, the seriousness in his dark blue eyes clearly seen. Trembling, she slipped out of her gown and stood before him in her cotton underskirts and chemise. He pointed to the edge of the bed,

“Lift up your skirts and lean across. Do not give me reason to remove your small clothes as well.”

He watched Daynel gulp back tears and she reluctantly obeyed him, her tiny round bottom raised for her discipline.

 

OK So just so you know, this is probably the tamest excerpt you could read. There is much more that is freaking hot. But I need to limit it because, like I said. I don’t have permission. :)

 

Love Nikki

Dare To Defy….And Help Save Me From Crazy Cleaning Lady!

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Hi peeps, thought I would drop in to say hello and give a little update about whats going on around here.

First of all, Bre has been suffering from “allergies”. I never heard of allergies causing someone to lose their voice and have a raging chest…cold? But what do I know? She says it was allergies, so it was allergies. Luckily for us, she managed to keep writing through it all and OMG her next book. It is the ducking bomb! It is called Dare to Defy and it is so damn hot. All I can say is hold on to your__________. This book is gonna make you need to change your panties a couple times. haha Shhhh! Don’t tell SJ I said that.

The other thing we have been doing is spring cleaning. Can I just say Bre is crazy? I have never seen so much shit being tossed out. Salvation Army, god bless you for coming and taking it all away. Bre is one of those people that gets into something and just goes nuts with it. She is determined that all of the spring cleaning and organizing will be finished prior to our vacation-which starts on Monday! Hmmm….Wish us luck. Lucky for me, I am off to LA with friends for the weekend so I can get out of some of what I lovingly refer to as Hayse Crazy Town. lol

So, thats about all thats happening around here. Hope you all are enjoying your spring and you don’t have a crazy slave driver making you clean.

Love, Nikki

Mojo Mondays with Natasha Knight

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We in the Hayse household are so happy to welcome Natasha Knight on the blog this week. We love her books and her storytelling skills are awesome. So enjoy this blog post from Natasha and giver her books a try, you wont be disappointed.

Thanks so much for having me for Mojo Mondays Bree. I only found you a couple of months ago but you’ve become one of my favorite authors and I adore your blog. Sir John, you and Nikki do an incredible job so please keep writing!

I was thinking about what I wanted to talk about today and my theme of the week seems to be secrets. Mainly, keeping the secret of what I write from most of the people in my life. My husband and a handful of friends know I write erotic romance and out of them, only a select few know it’s BDSM/spanking fiction and exactly 3 know my pen name. I hate not being able to talk about what I do, what I love, especially when it’s such a natural part of my existence. Although I have recognized a change in why I keep the secret and it’s no longer shame at my own desires – which is a huge step. When you spend most of your day writing it, reading it and just plain thinking about it, it just kind of becomes a part of you.

Anyhow, I don’t like secrets. Too much drama that sucks away my energy. It’s interesting to see how much of where I am in my life at any given point makes it into my books. Taught to Kneel (released in March) is the story of a woman who came out with her desire to submit to her husband. At that point in my life, I too had just come out to my husband. In the book, Gabrielle’s husband wasn’t able to handle what she wanted and they ended up divorced which led the way to her meeting Julian. He was able to give her what she wanted and needed and it gave me the opportunity to write some hot fantasies.

 

 

My husband was surprised (that’s a nice way to say it) when I told him what I wanted and while I was writing that particular book, I was trying to figure out how much I wanted this if things didn’t go as I hoped; how much it was worth to me. Funny enough, I just assumed all men liked to spank women. No really, don’t laugh. I mean, it just makes sense, right? Probably to all of us on this blog it does anyway. Well, I’m happy to say that things did work out in my real life. I didn’t want to travel down the road Gabrielle took. Although tender at first, my husband has found he has a great enthusiasm for the spank. Be careful what you ask for I guess…Ouch…

My recent release Taming Emma deals with secrets too, a lot of them, and how much damage keeping them can do. How it can keep us from truly connecting with someone else. For myself, I see how careful I am, how I protect my secret and I think I miss out on some friendships because of it. Emma and Luke almost missed out on each other but as it is an erotic romance, there is, of course, a happily ever after. I wish we could have those in real life – guaranteed. Anyhow, I’ll leave you with an excerpt of the book here – end on a great note.

 

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To set up the scene, it’s Emma’s birthday. She’ll get her birthday spanking, but first, Luke has a gift for her…

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Luke locked the apartment door and tossed his jacket on a chair.

“I’ll be right back, wait here,” he said, walking into the bedroom and returning a few minutes later. He took his time to roll up his sleeves. He imagined she’d be creaming her panties now. Spankings were Emma’s “on” button and he knew to draw out the ceremony, make her anticipate as he himself anticipated.

“Come here,” he said, settling on the couch. His cock was already hard with the thought of what he was going to do to her tonight.

Emma stood before him. He ran his eyes over the length of her. He held out her birthday present, a black box tied with dark red ribbon. Emma smiled and took it from him.

“Happy birthday,” he said.

She pulled on the ribbon and let it drop to the floor, recognizing the high-end shop’s logo. “Only you, Luke,” she said, smiling as she took the lid off the box. She peeled away layers of tissue paper before she came to the object.

“It’s solid brass coated in 24k gold,” he said, taking the box so she could lift the item out. He was very proud of himself. “I have a few more things for you, but we’ll get to those later.”

“It’s beautiful,” she said, feeling the weight of it, taking in the smooth, shiny surface, the jeweled bulb. “I’ve never been given a butt plug for my birthday before.” She looked at him and smiled.

“Do you like it?”

“Very much, thank you,” she said, leaning over to kiss him full on the mouth.

Luke took the plug from her hands as she straightened. “Take off your blouse.”

She pulled it over her head and tossed it aside. She stood with her back straight, her breasts thrust forward, lifted by the stiff shelf bra. He loved that bra. It made her breasts, which weren’t big but were quite full, sit like little globes and he knew she liked the feeling it gave her.

“Take your jeans down to your knees.”

Her hands fumbled over the buttons and he knew she was anxious. He would spank her with her jeans and panties pulled down before stripping and fucking her.

Once the pants were down, she stood in black lace panties in a cut he liked. “Turn around.”

She turned to reveal the back, which was entirely of lace and accentuated the roundness of her buttocks. His cock twitched and he adjusted its position. “Take them down.”

She hooked her thumbs into the panties and, leaning forward as she did so, pulled them down to the tops of her knees where her jeans were.

“We’ll try out your gift while I spank you,” he said, taking a lubricant out of his pocket. “When I’m finished, I’m going to fuck your pussy with the plug inside you for a while before fucking your ass. You’re not going to come until I’m buried inside it. Is that clear?”

“Yes, Sir.” Her voice came out hoarse.

“Good girl. Now, hands around your ankles.”

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Website – http://www.natasha-knight.com

Amazon Author Page – http://www.amazon.com/Natasha-Knight/e/B009MIHIFG/ref=sr_tc_2_0?qid=1367221777&sr=1-2-ent

Bio – I’m a (homesick) American living in the Netherlands with my husband and children.

I write casual BDSM Erotic Romance, heavy on the spanking. I love exploring the world and mind of the Dominant male and the submissive female, discovering just beneath the surface of each story the key element, which is, of course, love.

I love to create characters on paper who are as human as myself: powerful and vulnerable, flawed, perhaps damaged but with an incredible capacity to love. I enjoy writing explicit scenes that allow me to push my characters to their edge and keep them there while offering the audience a very hot read.

When I started writing, I decided that I wouldn’t censor myself and so far, I’ve kept that promise.I find myself revising my bio often as the process of writing takes me on a personal journey of self-discovery.

I love to hear from my readers. You can find me here:

Website – http://www.natasha-knight.com

Facebook Page – Natasha Knight Author Page

E-mail – natasha_knight@rocketmail.com.

Twitter @NatashaKnight13

 

 

Age Play and a Major Complaint

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Bree was a guest blogger on Joelle Casteel’s blog last week and I wanted to share the article with you. On Joell’s site, she referenced another blog about age play vs daddy doms. Anyway, something on that site really fired Bre up. So read the article Bre wrote then read the part from the other site that got Bree’s panties in a twist. Then you can hop on over to Joelle’s site. Its great and I know you will enjoy looking around and getting to know here better.
Thanks for inviting me over, Joelle! You are talking about one of my favorite topics… Ok here goes!!
My writing career started with The Game Plan [Joelle interrupts to say, I just started this book and I couldn't put it down. I had to grab my stuffed puppy and go to sleep long after I should have]… But the research started way before. As most of you know, I have an MA in Psychology with an emphasis on Alternative Lifestyles and couples counseling. I pursued those to gain some answers about my own needs and desires and discovered AP in the process.
I wrote an article a while back on my blog about AP, what it was and what it was not. In summary, it is a type of role play in which one, or more, partners takes on the adult/big position of authority, decision making, responsibility while the other, the little, assumes the responsibilities and activities of a certain age group. I must emphasize that AP is NOT about adults having sex with children, child abuse or anything of the sort. It is simply a technique that provides the little a chance to revert back to a time where he/she has less responsibilities and is permitted the freedom to react, rather than respond, to a life situation. Come on now… I am certain several of those people reading this have wished they could, as adults, stomp their feet, stick our their tongues, throw a tantrum or pout…. Without being called a big baby!
I wish I could tell you with absolute certainty that everyone involved in AP has had, or has not had, childhood issues… But that is not the case. AP’ ers come from all walks of life and on many different education levels as do those involved in DS. Although the majority of the ones I have been involved with have had experienced some sort of major childhood trauma, there are also some who were blessed with incredible childhoods and parenting examples. Either way, they have chosen this lifestyle because it works for them and they are thriving because of it.
You specifically asked how the Daddy/little relationship worked and what both parties got out of it…..
I mentioned above that it is a form of role play and that the couple/family (sometimes there are more than two involved) worked. It is a consensual release of control by the little to the authority figure.. Not always a daddy.. The big roles are vast in number, and depend on the involvement the individuals wish to take in the ‘raising’ of the little. The big role can include, but is not limited to, parent, aunt, uncle, brother, sister, teacher, cousin, guardian…. Any authority that is ‘older’ and maintains control. The little, likewise, can be a child of any age group and whose role depends on that of the big. The object of the lifestyle is for the little to release him or herself to the control of the big, and for the big to nurture, guide and direct the little, and provide him/her a safe environment to explore the inner child.
Bigs are also responsible for disciplinary action should their littles misbehave, and that can range to whatever means the big feels his/her little requires. Let me emphasize, again, that we are NOT dealing with real children… Merely adults who are taking on child like qualities and behaviors… Therefore, actions such as spankings, punishment enemas, and sex are often used together with time outs, writing lines, and removal of privileges. There is no right or wrong way to deal with it, however, I am sure most Bigs agree that the sexual aspects of the lifestyle are explored when the little is allowed to transform back into a big.
Trust is the ultimate benefit of this relationship. The little is completely exposed and vulnerable when she/he submits to the big, and trusts him/her with the delicate process of guarding not just the body, but the heart, mind and soul. The big has a huge responsibility in this lifestyle… Just like a real parent.
The AP lifestyle also provides opportunity for healing from past hurts… And any new players should be completely away [I wonder if Breebree meant "aware"] of possible emotional, mental or physical triggers prior to entering this arena. I do recommended that, in the beginning, a cue or safe word be decided on which would allow one, or the other, to pause and discuss an issue or discomfort as it arises. Secrets are not an option in this role… Too many things come to surface and the individuals must be patient and willing to address them.
On a personal note… I was introduced to AP and AB (adult baby… Infantilism) several years ago while researching my thesis. Coming from a background of abuse, I wanted to learn about the depth of my daddy issues and seek some answers. John and I live 24/7 in DS, but our AP is more restricted to special days or times when I am feeling particularly vulnerable or overwrought. We are also expanding our lifestyle knowledge with the help of my Uncle K and his little girl, Lp. I find it very difficult to release all control to Daddy, and I know Daddy finds it challenging to constantly be on the lookout for me. I cannot help but admire those people, like Uncle K and Lp, who live the lifestyle 24/7. The amount of trust and love that goes into it, along with the physical, mental and emotional aspects, is mind blowing!
I hope this helps answer some questions and perhaps, bring new ones to surface. I have to go now.. It is time for my nap and Daddy promised we would watch Little Mermaid and eat ice cream if I went to sleep without complaining.
Toodles!
Luvs, Breebree
OK so Joelle referenced, as I said another blog with some slightly different perspectives. Thats ok. I mean, everyone feels or lives this lifestyle with their own twists. But Bre was upset by this passage:
Sex in a Daddy/little relationship is not done like that of role players where the sexual attraction stems from deep seeded interest in incest or pedophilia. Sex between a Daddy and his little is just like sex between any people in a relationship.

It is SO wrong with absolutely no psychological or substantial basis whatsoever. In fact, this statement would put millions of good people.. Parents, teachers, doctors, lawyers, etc. on the sex offenders list. I know several people in the lifestyle who prosecute sex offenders and go above and beyond their means to protect children. To a reasonable and prudent person, the terms little, AB and AP are synonymous, and I challenge anyone to prove differently.  In essence, she accused those who don’t engage in the lifestyle full time to be perverts.

If this statement disturbs you, please go to the site and educate this woman!!!
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A DAY IN THE LIFE…..

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HI PEEPS! It’s me, crawling out from under a rock. The seasonal allergies got me good this time and, much to little sister’s delight, my voice and ability to scold her was stripped from me. I sound like Minni Mouse sucking helium.

 

There has been a thread of discussion I have been noticing in the sub-ways and I think its a good time to clarify some things for everyone. Life as a sub… That is, living this lifestyle 24/7…. Is not a constant state of being spanked, punished and humiliated. In fact, it might disappoint some of you, it is pretty normal.. Almost vanilla.. With some exceptions.

 

John spoils the hell out of me. He truly does. He makes me breakfast in bed every morning, bring me tea and coffee when I am writing, brushes my hair, rubs my back and bottom…. He cares for me so lovingly that I want to please him back. And, rest assured, I thank him profusely for every little tiny thing he does. Subs, if you want to flourish in your life with your Dom, YOU must show him/her that YOU appreciate every little effort they make. Not every Dom is like John, nor is it fair to compare them. In fact, to do so can be downright cruel and may just be setting the poor old thing up for failure.  Just like not every subby is like me… Each of us is unique with our own strengths and weaknesses. Each marriage relationship has its own dynamics and it is our responsibility to discover the things needed to make that particular relationship grow and blossom.

There is a huge difference between being a submissive and being a slave. Again, it is not the amount of time being restrained and spanked, it is about the service of the heart. A submissive shares her/his life with the Dom… Both giving to one another, appreciating each other, learning to live in respectful boundaries as they go about day to day activities. The discipline, when called for, is consensual, accepted and understood, and they learn ways of letting the past go once the payment is made.

A slave, however, serves his/her master/mistress. It is all about the Dom. There is a strong emphasis on micromanagement (which I personally rebel against) and nothing matters except for the Dom’s needs and desires. Even if he/she choses to ignore the slave, it is the prerogative of the master/mistress…. And not for the slave to complain. For any of you believing you are slave material, pause for a moment and look at your life. How many times do you use the word ‘I’ or ‘me’ in your vocabulary?  John has collared me as both submissive and slave… But he reserves slave days for the times when my behavior requires significant readjusting… I.e. when I become too much the DIVA and forget myself. The day is spent naked, on my knees, and performing chores that I loathe. Honestly, a true slave would be thrilled to death in that position. Not me! but it does serve to remind me of what a wonderful Dom I have, and makes me understand the need to express my appreciation to him for everything.

I hope this clarifies some things for you guys/gals. Please, embrace your relationship and draw the lines between fantasy and reality. Life is too short and too precious to waste! And, if you are seriously in need of a constant spanking, consider investing in a Robospanker!!! We have one and, trust me, it is not used as often as one would think!!!!

Luvs,

Bree

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First Meeting or Session With Dom…

 

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Ok lovelies, this is a very important post. So sit up straight, no double tasking. Turn the television off, etc..It is time you pay attention as if your life depended on it. Because it just might..

 

Alright, so you have been chatting online with a prospective Dom for a while and he wants to meet. Now it gets real, really fast. Your brain is racing, you ask yourself, am I really going to meet a strange man and submit to him baring my bottom and spanking me?  Well, maybe. I am going to list rules for a first meeting. These are not suggestions they are written in Dom Stone. I want you all to be safe out there, and lets face it, there are a lot of  crazies on the loose. So  write these down or print them out.

  1. Always meet at a public place for a first meeting. Never, ever go to his house. Ever. And never ever bring him to your house. Remember, your safety must be your top priority.
  2. If you meet for dinner, do not drink more than one glass of wine if, even that much.And the same goes for him. If any red flags go up for anything- how he talks, looks, dresses. Even if its a small thing, get out, go home. Listen to your inner voice.
  3. If you are leaning towards having  a session the first time you meet, it must be at a hotel. Not his house. Not your house. Not his brothers million dollar beach house. A hotel. That is your only option. A nice hotel which he pays for. ANd make sure the person checking you in will remember you.
  4. Always drive your own car. Never, ever, go in his. Ever.
  5. Arrange for a friend to call you at a certain time on your cell phone just to make sure you are ok.
  6. Safe Words…This is a tricky one. When I was doing sessions, it was always for real misbehaviors-not role play. So I allowed no safe words. So this is a rare instance where i will let you decide if you want a safe word. If you do, the easy ones are green, yellow, and red. For obvious reason.
  7. No bondage. I do not care if this is your thing and gets you hotter than fireworks in a microwave oven. No and no. Not the first time. Ever!
  8. No sex. Yes, you read this right. A real Dom will not even mention sex in a first session or meeting, and if he brings it up, leave. He just wanted to get you alone for this and he is not a Dom. And honestly, I do not care how much you may want to have sex. Don’t do it. Trust me on this. If it is meant to be, it will be. You do not want to meet someone and jump into bed and then never hear from him again. And believe me, it happens all of the time.
  9. Background checks…I think it is ok for you to do a background check on him however, he may not want to give his real name when you first meet. This does not need to be a deal breaker. Trust me, there are a lot of female maniacs out there too. Use your best judgment and follow your ugt. If you are talking to a guy (or a girl) either on chat, email, or phone and something just doesn’t feel right-trust yourself. Move on. your life is too important to gamble on.
  10. No wood implements. Ok, maybe you love a paddle or even a cane, but you do not know this guy. If he has no experience or skill, you can get seriously hurt. His hand will not damage you, even if he spanks as hard as I do. Plus you have to know he can control you and make him submit with his hand first.
  11. Dress. If he is for real, he will probably tell you what he wants you to wear. However, it is acceptable to insist on a thong if going full bare bottomed is just too scary for you.
  12. After care. If he is not caring, and willing to talk to you about how you are feeling, etc. Forget him. He is just a wanna-be. A Doms main concern in a session is the safety of the sub. Physically and emotionally. Obviously the spanking will hurt. It’s meant to, and you may cry, and you may mark. Thats fine. But you must not be ignored after. Corner time is allowed but you must be comforted after. Ladies, do not waiver here. If he is not offering after care you need to move on.
  13. Follow up. He should email or call you if you have been talking on the phone. And he should do this by the next day. A lot of times I did tis that night to make sure the sub got home safely and was dealing with the experience in a positive way. If he does not contact you by the next day, forget him. Unless he has a really good, valid, excuse. Move on.
  14. Rent the movie Strangeland. If that movie does not scare you into following my rules, nothing will. I want you all to know the feeling of a real Dom taking control and getting a real bare bottomed spanking. But most of all I want you to all be safe.

Thats it from Domland. Be good or else!

SJ

 

 

Saturday Spankings

 

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This week for Saturday Spankings, we are offering another hot excerpt from Blindfolded. I hope you enjoy it and it sets the stage for a smokin hot weekend for you! Then after you read the excerpt, check out the other great excerpts on the Sat Spanks blogspot.

 

 

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Regan Cooper’s entire existence is focused on living vicariously through the characters she creates as a best-selling erotic romance author. She lives alone and unseen in a cabin high in the mountains, interacting with the world purely through cyberspace. Then one night as she celebrates another best-seller with a bottle of wine, alone as usual, her life is turned upside down in an instant when she finds herself restrained, blindfolded, and kidnapped by someone she can only assume to be an obsessed fan.

The man calls himself Master Jay, and he knows everything about the terrified woman he holds prisoner. He promises Regan that no harm will come to her, and informs her that he is going to introduce her to the fantasies that she has written about in her books. Bound, stripped bare, and blindfolded, she has no choice but to submit to his desires, but as time passes she is shocked to find that her will to flee is being replaced by a powerful need to be his. Naked and vulnerable, yet aroused in a way she could never have imagined, she waits with a mix of wonder and trepidation for all of the pleasure and pain and shame and excitement that her new master intends for her to experience.

When he offers her the opportunity for a real adventure that she can call her own—one not experienced by any of her characters—she must decide whether she has learned to trust him, and herself, enough to indulge. Will Regan take a bold plunge into the unknown, or will she forever be the outsider looking in, afraid to see life outside of her vivid imagination.

Publisher’s Note: Blindfolded is an erotic novel that includes abduction, both consensual and non-consensual spankings, anal play, graphic sexual scenes, exhibitionism, pony and pet play, elements of BDSM, and more. If such material offends you, please don’t buy this book.

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Charlotte frowned, beckoning to her. “Over here, now. On your knees.”
Regan’s eyes widened as Charlotte transformed into her Mistress, and slowly sank before her.
“I’m sorry, Mistress. I’m nervous.”
“Turn around, Regan. Stick your bottom in the air; just like you were taught by Jay. Lower your pants to your ankles without getting up.”
Regan trembled and reddened with embarrassment as she obeyed, placing her forehead to the carpet and reaching underneath her to unzip her slacks. She pushed the material past her bottom, feeling the rush of cool air as she exposed her flesh. She saw only Charlotte’s polished boots as the trainer stood at her bowed head.
“Look up at me, Regan. This will be the only time I will tell you this. Ponies do not snap or bite. The ones that do are muzzled and, I assure you, that is not an experience you wish to have. Now present your bottom.”

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Finding A Dom Online…

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It seems that this is a topic you are all interested in. Ok my lovelies, let me lead you down this path carefully. Trust me, I will not let you fall. The first thing you need to ask yourself is, what is it that I really want? Do you want a weekend spanking partner,  a serious D/s relationship, an age play relationship? Are you seeking real atonement for misbehaviors or just more role play?  Or perhaps your desires may even lean darker, maybe  bondage, or more of an S&M relationship or experience.

Ok, once you know what you want, you need to put out some feelers. As much as you would like it, the perfect Dom is not going to just knock on your door one day  and say “hi looking for me?”  You are going to have to find him, or at least put yourself out there so he can find you. So for the purposes of this post, lets say you want a D/s relationship, with spanking as the consequence for your misbehaviors.There are some sites like Spank Seek  where you can make a profile and search for a Dom. Or  Shadowlane  and Nu West that have advertisements in their magazines. You want to stay away from sites like  alt.com , which is more s&m, and anything that does not have spanking or D/s or DD in the description.

So lets say you are on spanking.com… You  need to put up an ad and also get into some chat rooms.  Your ad needs to be honest-not only what you are seeking but what you are not. When describing yourself also be honest. Trust me, nothing bugs a Dom more than setting up a session with someone and finding out they are not anything like they described themselves to be. Been there,  got a t-shirt and a very uncomfortable evening out of it. So truth, truth, and more truth. So you put up your ad and look, you have a response. Actually, you have alot of responses, so now what do you do?   You respond in kind and see if the prospective “Mr. Right” Dom, wants to chat.

So now you are in chat, what do you say? Well first its always a good sign to say sir and be respectful.  Tell him your needs, and find out his.  Remember, keep it honest. Now pay attention, this is really important and I want all of you to sit up as you are reading this, and pay attention. If he mentions sex, say thank you for responding and get out! No real Dom will bring up sex in a first chat or a first session. Also, no bondage ever, unless you have a trusting relationship. Really trusting, You need to put yourself out there, but you need to feel safe. I always tell nubie subs to rent the movie Strangeland.  That  movie demonstrate how careful you have to be.

Chat should be fun for you. He should elicit that tingle, with what he says and how he says it. Then, you may want to go a step further and meet. I am going to do my next post on rules for a first session which you will need to burn into your little subbie memories as they are vital in this scene.

As always, be good or else.

SJ