What Not to Say to your Dom

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  • Is this your new belt?
  • Does a cane hurt worse than the birch?
  • I thought you said you were a hard spanker?
  • You’re not the boss of me!
  • What does a rug beater feel like?
  • I’m not afraid of you!
  • You are not going to use that on me.
  • No, I will not be still.
  • Oh I’m sure you would pull the car over and spank me.
  • You think you can hold me down OTK?

I am sure you all have your own favorites. Bree said the first to me today so I got inspired.

Be good, or else…

SJ

P.S. Ok, Lovelies, I almost forgot…never, ever shoot your Dom with a squirt gun when he is trying to pack heavy things…yes Bree again!

I Care #SatSpanks

Saturday SpankingsIt’s Saturday or should I say moving day, again, with more to come. Too many boxes! We’re in the midst of the move to our new house so things are definitely on the crazy side at the moment. Things are definitely looking more hectic as we head to the end of September, so please bear with us if we’re slow to respond. All I know is that I hope your weekend is more relaxing than ours! With all that free time don’t forget to check out all the other spanking author’s have to share over at the Saturday Spankings Blog.

Aftercare: General’s Daughter, Book 4

How many times does Samantha Quimby need to be turned over a firm knee before she finally learns to behave? This question is the ongoing theme with her family and now, her boyfriend, Lt. Richard Lewis. Will she ever learn? The young USMC special ops officer manages to find trouble in every corner, including during an undercover operation. As if that type of adventure isn’t enough for her, Sam is also introduced to the intimacy of both Richard’s love-making and the severity of his discipline when he catches her in a lie. But his aftercare…. that is something that she never wants to do without. To the point that Sam gives into temptation to provoke just a little more trouble!

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In this scene Rich is punishing Jen for her indiscretions.

Gently, he skimmed her shorts pass her thighs, followed by her panties, ignoring the tears that rose from embarrassment.   Rich rested his hand on her plump bottom.

“I want to know why I having to do this,” he said. Jen spilled out everything she could think of, hoping that her cooperation would earn her some sympathy. Rich sighed, “You left out the most important thing. I’m doing this because I care about you. You are my sister now, and I need to be able to take care of you.”

With that he landed his first smack, a bright red handprint was immediately evident on her pale bottom.

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OTK or Online

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Hello lovelies,

It seems that my last post confused some of you so let me shine a little Dom light on your fog of subbie confusion. First, my fondest wish for all of you is to experience a real, in person punishment session and a subspace one, even just once. Unfortunately, for some of you that is just not in the cards. What to do? The closest thing is to train online with a Dom. Now you have a lot of access to a potential Dom with the internet, complete with chat rooms, websites, messenger etc.

Let me give you a hypothetical situation to try to explain the online aspect a little more. Let’s say you email me (yes it does happen from time to time). You say you are out of control and need a firm hand to reel you in, that you fantasize about spanking and feel it may help you. Now, if I feel you are sincere, I may take you on for training, and no, I do not accept everyone. Only if you are serious and I feel I can help you because at the end of the day this is real not play. From there I tell you what is required and you must agree to all my rules, or we cannot work together. These include: keeping a punishment book, reporting bad behaviors once a week , getting on chat so that we can communicate in real time, agreeing to be obedient and follow all my orders without hesitation (that’s the goal but it usually takes a while for this to happen). Should the need for punishment arise your punishments may include: self spanking, writing lines, grounding, curfew etc. and no I do not care how old you are (though I usually do not train anyone under 35 or so) if a punishment is earned a punishment is received.

If you want to change behaviors then it’s my way or the vanilla way. You are then held accountable to an alpha male, one you cannot manipulate. All those years of getting your own way are gone and you answer to me. Now you all may be thinking “Oh come on SJ, why would I tell you that I’ve misbehaved? Especially if I am going to be punished? After all you’re thousands of miles away, what’s to stop me from just telling you I am being good or faking my punishment?

As a subbie you have one trait that you share with all your subbie sisters and that is guilt. If it were a subbie cup it would not runneth over, it would tsunami. Subbie guilt is like no other and lying to your Dom, someone that cares about you, is taking time to train you, is there for you, and is strict enough to blister your bb, would not be an option. If you did lie, the guilt would eat you up and you would eventually confess but by then your punishment would be much worse.

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Now as a self-spanker you cannot possibly spank to the level I could with you in person but, following my orders you would be surprised just how sore your bottom can get. Tears, whining, protests, any kind of manipulation does not work, and I do not care how sore your bottom gets. But, a punishment given over chat is only phase one, phase two is a phone session. For this you call and hear my voice for the session, scolding and ordering your punishment, this is as close to a real, in person session as it gets.

Does it work? I can tell you, honestly, that all the women I have trained have changed their behaviors for the better. So, yes, you bet it works. Will you like it? Yes and no. Yes as you will finally have someone you cannot manipulate. One that will not hesitate to discipline you in the way he sees fit, with you having no say in the matter and no control over your fate. And no, for all the previous reasons, lol. Hope that clears up a little of the online training mystery.

Be good, or else…

SJ

A Quimby Family Punishment #SatSpanks

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Summer has passed, school is underway and Fall is beginning! There is a lot happening in the Hayse household with the move just starting and of course lots of writing. There are a few books underway and at least one at the very beginning of it’s editing process. We’ll hopefully have more to share with you as we make our way through the Fall season. In the meantime don’t forget to check out all the other spanking author’s have to share over at the Saturday Spankings Blog.

Aftercare: General’s Daughter, Book 4

How many times does Samantha Quimby need to be turned over a firm knee before she finally learns to behave? This question is the ongoing theme with her family and now, her boyfriend, Lt. Richard Lewis. Will she ever learn? The young USMC special ops officer manages to find trouble in every corner, including during an undercover operation. As if that type of adventure isn’t enough for her, Sam is also introduced to the intimacy of both Richard’s love-making and the severity of his discipline when he catches her in a lie. But his aftercare…. that is something that she never wants to do without. To the point that Sam gives into temptation to provoke just a little more trouble!

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This scene is a continuation of the post shared a few weeks ago with Samantha having an unpleasant talk with her Dad.

He spanked her sharply and quickly, making her spell out the offending phrase. She squealed, unable to escape as each sharp smack covered her tiny derriere in quick succession as he matched each letter with three swats. The running shorts covering her backside failed to afford enough protection from the pain of his strong swing and Sam was left was crying softly by the time he finished. With a pained sigh, her father lifted her into his arms, kissing her tears away as he embraced her tightly.

“I won’t have anything or anybody undo the work we’ve done with you. That’s something I won’t compromise, ok? I’m sorry I had to do this, but you pushed it way too far with the swearing, baby.”

“I know. I’m sorry. Is…….is Scott coming up to wash my mouth out with soap?”

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Aftercare: General’s Daughter, Book 4 Released!

 

At long last the fourth installment of the General’s Daughter is finally here!

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How many times does Samantha Quimby need to be turned over a firm knee before she finally learns to behave? This question is the ongoing theme with her family and now, her boyfriend, Lt. Richard Lewis. Will she ever learn? The young USMC special ops officer manages to find trouble in every corner, including during an undercover operation. As if that type of adventure isn’t enough for her, Sam is also introduced to the intimacy of both Richard’s love-making and the severity of his discipline when he catches her in a lie. But his aftercare…. that is something that she never wants to do without. To the point that Sam gives into temptation to provoke just a little more trouble!

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Subbie Catch 22

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Hello lovelies,

I want to discuss something with you concerning the heading to my post. It could also be called “Why subbies cannot behave all the time” lol.

All of you have, or have had fantasies about being spanked for punishment, a hard bb spanking that goes beyond your limits and makes you feel truly punished, right? Of course I am right, I know you better than you know yourselves, lol. Now when a sub has or does contact me it’s usually for a specific behavior: smoking, speeding, etc. (you all know the list by now). The goal is to change the self-destructive behaviors and also teach the sub how to behave properly, especially when interacting with a Dom.

Now, once the behaviors are changed and the sub begins to act properly, punishment is no longer needed. I see you all scratching your heads and saying, “Yes Sir John, we know this. So what’s up with the catch 22 thingy?”

Here’s what I mean…after a while you will be jonsing for a spanking. At first not having to sit gingerly or write lines will be enjoyable but, after a while with no correction you will feel something lacking.

So what do you do? You act out.

Why? Because as much as a spanking hurts you still need it from time to time. It’s very hard for a sub to ask a Dom for a spanking because she is jonsing. Bree still cannot do this but, she has her ways of getting it. Training a sub online is very difficult when it comes to this. In person you can brat and be spanked quickly, online it is much more complicated, as some of my online subs can attest.

You see it’s a real subbie catch 22…misbehave and you displease your Dom and get punished. Behave and you please your Dom but go nuts jonsing for a hot bottom. I must say I do not envy you, that’s’ why it’s good to be the Dom. One thing to remember, if you are jonsing and ask a Dom respectfully to spank you in person or online, it would be rare for him to turn you down. And no it’s not topping from the bottom, so speak up…to paraphrase a great movie moment “raise your voices and yell, we’re bratty as hell and we want more!!!”

Be good, or else…

SJ

#SummerSpanks Winners!

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Thank you for  participating not only on our blog but in the #SummerSpanks blog hop! We had a great weekend full of spanking and are ready for Fall to begin.

The two participants that win a copy of a Breanna Hayse book of their choosing are:

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The winners for the Grand Prizes are:

•Kindle or Nook from Blushing Books – Kristin Brio!
•$25 Gift Certificate to Amazon from Stormy Night Publications – Megan Michaels!
•$25 Gift Certificate to Amazon from Baronet Press – Sarah Young!
•One month membership to Pandora Blake’s Dreams of Spanking – Adaline Raine!
•Hand made paddle from Blondie’s Place – Jule Kijek!
•$25 Gift Certificate to Amazon from Wizards in Publishing – Alice Gottschall!
•You can have it all package by Variant Books – Jolynn Raymond!
•Six month membership to Discipline & Desire – Leigh Smith!
•$25 GC from Jolynn Raymond – Holla Dean!
•An ebook package from LearningDD – Cat Trouble!
•Ebook Cover Design & Matching Facebook Cover Picture from Kandes Pixels – Roz in His Hands!

Congrats everyone!